My patient dropped her baby!

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I took care of a patient today who was post op day one still on a PCA. I went in this morning and said hi. We chatted for a minute because her older daughter was the same age as my daughter. Then she asked for her baby from the nursery. I had someone bring her the baby. Then I continued on my rounds.

About 45 minutes later I heard a cry from the hallway. I ran into the room and the patient was hysterically crying holding her baby. She was crying, "They left me alone! Why did they leave me alone?" She said she was sitting in the chair holding the baby when she suddenly dozed off and the baby rolled onto the floor. I grabbed the baby and brought her to the nursery.

The baby was fine but when the patient's husband showed up he was ******. He said, "How could you leave her in the room alone with the baby? She was on morphine. She can't take care of the baby by herself." He made a big stink about it. Supervisors were involved. I was up to my knees in paperwork. Now the nurses are starting to question non-separation. But have you ever had a mother drop her baby on postpartum? Who's ultimately responsible when a postpartum mother drops her baby?

Specializes in M/S, LTC, Corrections, PDN & drug rehab.
I don't agree that it's a setup for a lawsuit. But maybe I'm naive.

I'm sorry this happened to you.

Yeah, that wasn't the first thing that popped into my head. But I guess I'm just as naive as you. But why would the husband blame his wife? Of corse they're gonna blame the nurse.

Specializes in ER, ICU.

Some suggested comebacks:

Sir, if she can't take care of a baby you shouldn't have knocked her up.

Ma'am we're having the gravity looked at in that room, I'm so sorry it was on.

I'm sorry, I will never leave you alone with your baby again... ever.

SBAR: S- mother holding a baby, B- she just had the baby, A- she's holding the baby successfully, seems to be doing a good job of it... for now, R- we just don't know what could happen, recommend we administer the AHBE test (Ability to Hold a Baby Exam), provide safety cushions, and q 1min. safety checks until discharge, when continuous home safety monitoring can be arranged until adulthood.

Yeah, that wasn't the first thing that popped into my head. But I guess I'm just as naive as you. But why would the husband blame his wife? Of corse they're gonna blame the nurse.

See if it were me, I'd be horrified and embarrassed that I dropped the baby. I would not be screaming "why did you leave me alone!" I would be screaming "omg I'm terrible, I can't believe that happened, someone please help, someone look at my baby!"

I can also guarantee you when my husband got back he would not be immediately blabbing out and blaming the nurse, sorry but I don't see why it's the nurse fault (from a patient standpoint)

I wasn't there so I don't know exactly what happened, but the way the OP wrote the story, that's why it sounds like a setup to me. The mother did something and then automatically starts in about "why did you leave me alone!" And then the dad comes back and starts saying the same thing?! Setting up blame for a lawsuit it just sounds that way to me.

Specializes in M/S, LTC, Corrections, PDN & drug rehab.
See if it were me, I'd be horrified and embarrassed that I dropped the baby. I would not be screaming "why did you leave me alone!" I would be screaming "omg I'm terrible, I can't believe that happened, someone please help, someone look at my baby!"

I can also guarantee you when my husband got back he would not be immediately blabbing out and blaming the nurse, sorry but I don't see why it's the nurse fault (from a patient standpoint)

I wasn't there so I don't know exactly what happened, but the way the OP wrote the story, that's why it sounds like a setup to me. The mother did something and then automatically starts in about "why did you leave me alone!" And then the dad comes back and starts saying the same thing?! Setting up blame for a lawsuit it just sounds that way to me.

Well I guess I expect it out of patients to place blame on us instead of stepping up accepting responsibility. The mother was fine at first but as soon as the preverbal poo hit the fan, the mother & father blame the nurse. I've seen it all the time, doesn't necessarily end in a law suit.

Some suggested comebacks:

Sir, if she can't take care of a baby you shouldn't have knocked her up.

Ma'am we're having the gravity looked at in that room, I'm so sorry it was on.

I'm sorry, I will never leave you alone with your baby again... ever.

SBAR: S- mother holding a baby, B- she just had the baby, A- she's holding the baby successfully, seems to be doing a good job of it... for now, R- we just don't know what could happen, recommend we administer the AHBE test (Ability to Hold a Baby Exam), provide safety cushions, and q 1min. safety checks until discharge, when continuous home safety monitoring can be arranged until adulthood.

LOL.

im glad i wasnt the only one who found this comical. i didnt want to feel like the only a-hole lol

Specializes in Critical Care, Postpartum.

Lawsuit never came to mind, but I'm not surprised at her response. Since working in Postpartum, I've had some crazy questions and responses from mothers that puts a question mark in my mind as to why the individual got pregnant in the first place.

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I think I'm in the minority here, but I do NOT think it sounds like a setup. When something bad happens, it's natural to try to place blame. Imagine a mother who drops her own baby and doesn't know yet if the child will be ok. Of course she doesn't want to live with the guilt of accepting responsibility for potentially hurting her child. It probably broke her heart that that happened and she probably racked her brain trying to figure out how in the world she let it happen, concluding that it must not be her fault.

I'm not a nurse yet, so I have no idea who should take blame (if anyone). It sounds like one of those bizarre things that are just out of your control.

Specializes in HH, Peds, Rehab, Clinical.

Did the baby even really fall? Mom was holding baby when OP came back into the room, right? She just said she dropped baby but noone saw it. I hate to be Nancy Naysayer, but in this day and age...

AWHONN Guidelines for Professional Registered Nurse Staffing for Perinatal Units (2010 - current) states,

Until the new mother recovering from cesarean birth is no longer receiving pain relief via PCA pumps or epidural catheters, babies should not be left alone in mother's arms without nursing personnel or support people in attendance to reduce risk of a baby falling from the mother's arms and to reduce risk of a mother falling asleep with the baby in the bed. This recommendation also applied to mothers who have been given medication for sleep.
(Section Mother-Baby Care, p.31)

Story: 2010 I wsd on postpartum floor. Mom had brand new baby in the room with her. Ex boyfriend comes to visit. 30 minutes later mom is screaming that the ex boyfriend stole the baby. He was already out in the parking lot when he got caught. he went 7 floors down before mom screams the baby was kidnapped. We all thought it was"strange."

So yeah I think it's"fishy" to me. Mom had no problems bending down to get child off of floor. Didn't hit the call light just cried. She was on her phone googling how to stage a lawsuit. This is my personal "I have a teenager who does stupid things" opinion.

Specializes in NICU, PICU, PACU.

My only experience of a mom dropping a baby was years ago, but mom never said anything until we got the baby in NICU with seizures. When we did a CT there was a cracked skull. Infant wasn't forceps so the docs questioned the mom who broke down and told us. She was embarrassed and scared that they would take her baby from her. Moms on PCA pumps aren't allowed to be alone with their babies anymore, there has to be someone with her.

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