I'm headed to a 504 meeting for a 4th grader next week who has some abdominal issues. Said student has very poor attendance (and teacher often reports when things get stressful or student gets in trouble, student is absent the next day-always excused as illness). Student is failing everything (intermediate aged elementary student). Student recently started a fairly benign anticholinergic drug. Student's parent flew student across country to special doctor for me (local doctor couldn't find anything wrong with student??? IDK). Student rarely makes it to my office when not feeling well-teacher screens student hard. Student NEVER looks ill, never demonstrates any behavioral signs of nausea, pain or difficulty (although student thinks having thrown up once in 2nd grade is of importance).She eats a not very nutritious diet. Now student and parent are coming up with excuses such as "too much noise in classroom"-wearing noise cancelling headphones... Can't walk fast enough in line through school, so needs to be able to walk slower.
Student looks like a healthy person, slightly overweight, bored, not socially apt and parent strikes everyone as a hypochondriac. 504 meeting next week. I got an invitation based on administration of new med at school. Seriously, I don't think the district wants to take on a 504 and repercussions if not needed. I just want student to find a way to be a successful and happy human. I don't think she has a serious stomach ailment (we'll see what paperwork parent produces at meeting, but I'm not privy to anything very serious). Paperwork for med was prescribed for "abd pain". Student NEVER appears to be in any pain.
What's my role at this meeting? How do I come prepared. I think someone needs to find a way through to parent in explaining that their actions are really inhibiting students ability to thrive by acting as though she is seriously ill and letting her stay home from school 50% of time and blaming school for everything. Student has a great teacher who manages classroom wonderfully. Anybody have a situation like this? Anybody have a good way to handle this? Anyone with ideas of my role here? I don't see parent as receptive to typical and logical arguements (zero signs of pain, noise cancelling headphones not helping, student stays home whenever student gets in trouble, student doesn't eat a healthy diet, etc, etc...
Thanks for any help in coming prepared to this meeting and any thoughts on how to break through the situation and move it toward a solution that helps the student move forward.
Hi,
I'm headed to a 504 meeting for a 4th grader next week who has some abdominal issues. Said student has very poor attendance (and teacher often reports when things get stressful or student gets in trouble, student is absent the next day-always excused as illness). Student is failing everything (intermediate aged elementary student). Student recently started a fairly benign anticholinergic drug. Student's parent flew student across country to special doctor for me (local doctor couldn't find anything wrong with student??? IDK). Student rarely makes it to my office when not feeling well-teacher screens student hard. Student NEVER looks ill, never demonstrates any behavioral signs of nausea, pain or difficulty (although student thinks having thrown up once in 2nd grade is of importance).She eats a not very nutritious diet. Now student and parent are coming up with excuses such as "too much noise in classroom"-wearing noise cancelling headphones... Can't walk fast enough in line through school, so needs to be able to walk slower.
Student looks like a healthy person, slightly overweight, bored, not socially apt and parent strikes everyone as a hypochondriac. 504 meeting next week. I got an invitation based on administration of new med at school. Seriously, I don't think the district wants to take on a 504 and repercussions if not needed. I just want student to find a way to be a successful and happy human. I don't think she has a serious stomach ailment (we'll see what paperwork parent produces at meeting, but I'm not privy to anything very serious). Paperwork for med was prescribed for "abd pain". Student NEVER appears to be in any pain.
What's my role at this meeting? How do I come prepared. I think someone needs to find a way through to parent in explaining that their actions are really inhibiting students ability to thrive by acting as though she is seriously ill and letting her stay home from school 50% of time and blaming school for everything. Student has a great teacher who manages classroom wonderfully. Anybody have a situation like this? Anybody have a good way to handle this? Anyone with ideas of my role here? I don't see parent as receptive to typical and logical arguements (zero signs of pain, noise cancelling headphones not helping, student stays home whenever student gets in trouble, student doesn't eat a healthy diet, etc, etc...
Thanks for any help in coming prepared to this meeting and any thoughts on how to break through the situation and move it toward a solution that helps the student move forward.
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