This website is so great and helpful. This is my first post so please bear with me. I'd greatly appreciate any input!
This Fall I'm going into my senior year of Nursing school, which is all clinical-based. I've been working as a Nurse Extern (which, to the hospital, is basically a glorified tech who will be graduating from a Nursing school soon) on a Medical ICU Stepdown floor for a year. I feel like I've seen and experienced a lot and I already feel well ahead of my peers at school. The greatest part of the job, though, is that it's confirmed my desire to become a nurse!
So what's the problem? Our Nurse Manager does a horrific job of "managing" the floor in nearly every way possible. She plays favorites, tries to be everyone's friend, she takes patient's family's sides and finds fault in the care that our nurses are providing, etc. She treats techs poorly and pretty much makes them feel unvalued. She'll pay a nurse $350 to work four hours and will offer a tech $25 to work eight hours. I absolutely understand the value of education and experience, but these actions also deliver the message that techs are unnecessary on the floor. A dangerous division between nurses and techs has developed on the floor over the past few months over this issue and she states she just cannot afford to pay to staff techs on our unit. I stay late all the time, sometimes until 1:30AM to help midnight shift with first rounds just because they are never staffed with techs on nights anymore. The only reason I've made so many sacrifices for the floor is because I love the people I work with on night shift and I think it's ridiculous how little management cares about staffing the off shifts.
I was ignorant to a lot of this for quite a while and was working tons and tons of overtime until I recently decided that I was making far too many sacrifices in my personal life. I know that my NM values my presence on the floor as she has been having me precept several new hires. She is well aware that I will be graduating next May and always checks in with me to remind me that she's "already reserved a spot" for me on the Nursing staff. She even makes comments like this when there are several people around. She has the expectation that the Externs she has will all come back onboard as RNs. A large majority of them do, and when I've asked some of them why, they've mentioned that our NM bumped up the starting salary a bit and they were comfortable with the floor and the patient care.
It makes me extremely uncomfortable when my NM makes these comments because I'm fairly confident that this is NOT the kind of Nursing I want to do. The patients we care for are mostly vent-dependent patients who require complete care. Most are well over 300 pounds, don't help with turns, push back when you try to turn them, are incontinent around the clock, and are just plain needy and demanding. I've been kicked, punched, spat at, sworn at, and the list continues, more times that I've ever cared to be throughout my entire Nursing career. Everyone ends their shift with sore backs, and while the ceiling-lift slings are great, they are not the magic answer that the hospital was hoping for! Nurses leave all the time because of the large toll it takes on the body. I know someone needs to care for these patients, but I can easily see myself becoming worn out after only a short amount of time on this floor. This doesn't even include my lack of desire to work for a NM who acts the way she does and who treats her staff as inappropriately as my NM does. I've learned a lot and I love the staff on the floor, but the patient care does not appeal to me.
I know that Nursing opens up an entire world of opportunities for me, and I feel like I want to try everything! I've had my eye on the NICU for as long as I can remember, and that is what I truly, truly want right now. I realize that there will be management issues no matter where I go in the hospital. I suppose I'm just needing to vent somewhere about how I feel. I'm also just looking for any suggestions on how to handle the uncomfortableness when these situations arise.
I know this was long, but I feel better now that I've been able to sort out of my feelings. Any thoughts out there on how to best handle future situations like this?