LGBTQ Patient Care?

Providing care to the LGBTQ community requires sensitivity and knowledge. Here is some information so that we can meet this goal.

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As our communities continue to diversify many of our patients now have the freedom to express who they are. This can impact the care we provide and in order to be sensitive to this, first we need to review some of the terminology. The acronym LGBTQA can be defined as:

Lesbian (adj., noun) - A sexual orientation that describes a woman who is emotionally and sexually attracted to other women.

Gay (adj.) - A sexual orientation that describes a person who is emotionally and sexually attracted to people of their own gender. It can be used regardless of gender identity, but is more commonly used to describe men.

Bisexual( (adj.) - A sexual orientation that describes a person who is emotionally and sexually attracted to people of their own gender and people of other genders.

Transgender (adj.) - Describes a person whose gender identity and assigned sex a birth do not correspond. Also used as an umbrella term to include gender identities outside of male and female. Sometimes abbreviated as trans.

Questioning (adj.) - Describes an individual who is unsure about or is exploring their own sexual orientation and/or gender identity.

Ally (noun) - A person who supports and stands up for the rights of LGBT people.

There are many other acronyms used in this community and here is a resource for healthcare providers.

AN had a recent opportunity to discuss this issue with Justin Milici, MSN, RN, CEN, CPEN,TCRN, CCRN, FAEN who is an Emergency Nurses Association member who provided input on ENA's Topic Brief: Care of the Gender Expansive and Transgender Patient in the Emergency Care Setting.

Some transgender people do not use their birth names and are known as a different name. What suggestions do you have for nurses who may need to know their birth names and birth genders for insurance reasons, continuity of care or for some other legitimate reason?

This is a common situation. If the patient has legally changed their name and has the supporting identification documentation, the new name can be used. If they have not legally changed their name, then their birth name must be used. In this situation, I first ask the patient how he/she would like to be addressed. I then explain to them that there will be situations that legally require their birth name, such as lab draws, radiology and other procedures and consents. I explain that this is required not only for legal purposes but for their safety.

To "out" an LGBTQI patient could risk their safety not to mention their privacy. How should nurses ensure privacy of all patients?

Nurses need to ensure privacy for all patients regardless of the situation. If a patient identifies as transgender, this needs to be clearly documented in the medical record so that the members of the healthcare team are aware and can best care for the patient safely.

If a nurse inadvertently offends or uses the wrong pronoun, what would be the best way to handle this situation?

Using the wrong pronoun is not uncommon, especially if this is a new situation for the nurse. Just simply saying, "I'm sorry" and then using the correct pronoun is often enough.

Many hospitals are adopting different visiting policies aimed at LGBTQI patients and their families? How do you think a staff nurse could influence this policy?

The nurse can influence this policy by simply being a patient advocate. Having a policy that fosters family presence while ensuring the privacy, dignity, well-being and safety of the patient is the best policy

How can we deal with medical care disparities among the LGBTQ community members?

LGBTQ patients, especially transgender, often avoid emergency department care due to: 1. Fear of discrimination due to their transgender status, and 2. Have had one or more negative experiences in the ED due to discrimination, which includes being asked intrusive questions, often having nothing to do with why they came to the ED in the first place.

So, in conclusion here are some additional tips for healthcare providers when caring for ALL patients:

  1. Be sensitive to patients. Ensure privacy when discussing private matters.
  2. Don't ask for more information than that needed to care for the patient.
  3. Within your facilities' policies allow the significant other visit and provide support.
  4. Be respectful of same sex marriage and realize that this is may be a legal relationship in your state.

How does your facility provide LGBTQ sensitive care? Do you think you have enough education to provide care in these situations?

Other Resources:

Communication Best Practices

Improving the Healthcare of Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender People

Opening the Door

Specializes in ER.

We are bound to step in it and be politically incorrect as society changes. Just apologize, explain and start again.

I had to ask committed lesbian partners for pregnancy tests...that took some tap dancing. I said that things happen in a relationship that the health care team isn't privy to, so we've chosen to ask everyone for a pregnancy test since its essential for safety.

I've also been stuck awkwardly as to who was the partner, or preferred sex. Just ask. I think prefacing with "I just want to clarify...or I'm a little mixed up, so you are?"

If you have to ask about specifics, "I'd like to know...because it affects..." or "If x is part of your life, then y can happen. Do you need more information?" Honestly, I'd even go so far as saying "this feels awkward, but its important for your health, lets talk." and then jump right in. A little blushing could be forgiven, and if you can get the patient to laugh with you, its all good.

I've never come across a straight up jerk dealing with these issues, as a group they seem more forgiving, maybe because they've been ostracized for so long. Well, that's a lie; if you're dealing with a jerk, they show their jerk colors about everything, its not a sexuality issue. And we've got lots of experience with that.

Specializes in ICU; Telephone Triage Nurse.

Great article! I am an Ally and support patients and nonpatients to be who they are, and their freedom to feel comfortable and safe doing so. I hope one day all of the LGBTQ community will feel at ease going for medical care in all settings regardless of the situation.

Specializes in Med Surge, Tele, Oncology, Wound Care.

I am an ally. As an RN I want to be sensitive and use the right language and approach without screwing it all up and offending someone. Would it be okay to tell a patient straightaway that I am an ally and if I say something wrong to please correct me?

I really am trying to educate myself. I wish there was a course I could take for sensitivity training. Although I don't see why we should need it really because we are all people and have feelings, but more on how to help co workers be sensitive, etc. if anyone has info let me know!

Good gravy,I am retired effective 2013, but when I was at work here was my way of thinking.. I am a Nurse, nothing more, nothing less. I realize the face sheet that has everything needed for insurance payment but when I am out on that floor, you are my patient. Yes there are some tings that are a legal way of taking care of you We check the name band for medications, xrays, blood transfusions etc, those are for your safety. During your admission assessment you are asked what preferred name you wish to be addressed by..It should not make me feel any different than treating a man whose name is Anthony wanting to be called "Tony". Regardless of who you are, whomever you state is your significant other, that is exactly who that person is..This one really gets me thinking, because I can count my true, close friends on one hand, the ones that I would trust to help me make decisions. We all know there is a high percent of women living longer than men .I have one or two that are exceptionally close to and we have talked about the possibility of being widows someday. My husband has been in remission with NHL stage 4 since 2009 yet he also has prostate cancer mets, he travels around with his friends, he was a rambler when we met now he leaves our home area during the winter months due to bone pain.I can't even get started about the non prescribing opiod Physicians out there, I feel he is being neglected due to some addicts actions..My friends husband is a long haul trucker with a slew of medical problems himself.But before all of their medical problems we always had difficulty with social situations. an example would be I don't want to be the third wheel and hang out with a couple, yet I was not comfortable hanging out with my single friends, they are still looking for Mr Right but I am not. We are not gay, but we sure are significant to each other. I never want to burden my adult children with having to make medical decisions..but I do know my children would trust her input, because she is also a retired nurse. and her adult children would also want my input, and right now I know both our husbands would too...So any person gay or straight their significant other can and should be anybody they choose..What I am trying to say is that your sexual preference should have no impact on the medical care that you receive, never. Actually the only time it should be discussed is if it is a gyne or urology medical problem that brought you to the hospital and for educational purposes only and if it was or will affect your sexual behaviors in the future. I have taken care of patients that have many different lifestyles than I do be it a sexual difference or religion,or their living conditions. I would honor your beliefs and take care of you the same as "Tony". I do not make assumptions nor judgment against people different than me. Nobody ever should.

Specializes in Nephrology, Cardiology, ER, ICU.

Author note - links have been fixed and I apologize for the issue. Thanks for pointing it out.

Specializes in Going to Peds!.

A is for Asexuality. Pretty important to acknowledge the invisible orientation.

Specializes in Med Surge, Tele, Oncology, Wound Care.
Author note - links have been fixed and I apologize for the issue. Thanks for pointing it out.

Thank you for including them!!!

Specializes in Nephrology, Cardiology, ER, ICU.
A is for Asexuality. Pretty important to acknowledge the invisible orientation.

Thanks for pointing this out. The resource and people I talked to usually use A-ally as a supporter of the LGBT community.

Here is a resource from UC Davis that lists various acronyms and what they stand for:

LGBTQIA Resource Center Glossary | Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, Asexual Resource Center

Specializes in Critical Care and ED.

I just got married to my wife this past summer. I still struggle with being open at a doctor's office despite having been out for 35 years. Everytime you go and see a doctor you have to come out all over again. I don't want to make it an issue but sometimes you can't help it. I have endometriosis so I'm always seeing a doctor for one thing or another, and invariably the birth control question comes up again and again, so I'm forced to have the discussion which gets a little old after all these years, but you have to be honest when you're being asked questions about why you don't use birth control and is it possible that you might be pregnant. I often take my wife to doctor's appointments now, mainly because she wants to part of my care, but also because I get a kick out of introducing her as my wife which is self-explanatory and limits those awkward questions.

Things have changed for the better and I am grateful that is has. It's not long ago that partners were being kept from the bedside of their loved one because they weren't seen as family. There are many sad stories about people not being their for their partner's last breath because of discrimination and hostile family situations. That can never be allowed to happen again. This is actually the main reason I married my wife. I want her to be seen legally as my next of kin so that can never happen to us. I don't want her to lose our home or our financial resources and wanted to piece of paper to prove our legality.

Specializes in Tele, ICU, Staff Development.

Thank you, I love this article!! This has been on my mind

Informative article. This topic is not discussed among healthcare providers as much as it should be. Your article echoed a website I created a couple of weeks ago for my master's FNP program entitled LGBT Youth and Mental Health Disparities. The primary focus was on depression and suicide which is much higher among LGBT youth then their heterosexual peers. I also touched on a few of your points mentioned as well.

Here are a few other suggestions:

Being transgender or genderqueer isn't a choice or preference, so instead of "what are your preferred pronouns?" Better: "What pronouns should I use?" "What name can I use for you?"

If someone says their pronouns are "they, them and theirs" get over it and use them. Your discomfort with grammar you don't like is minor compared to the struggles your patient feels throughout their life.

There are no 'boy parts and girl parts.' If it's appropriate to ask "do you have a uterus?," ask. Do not ask, "were you born a girl?"

"What is your relationship to each other? Who is this person to you?"

My (suburban, liberal city) ER had an older hetero white couple be offended that someone referred to their spouse as a 'partner' or 'friend.' So, if I haven't been able to established what terms to patient uses for their visitor, I'll generically call them "your support person" or "your support people." Though, tone and report is everything for this working well or not.

Hormones and surgery are better referred to as "gender confirming" not "sex change"

For families that include trans* parents, "pregnant person" is better than "pregnant woman." Some people dislike/don't connect to the words "mother/mom/father/dad." "Parent" is a safe bet. Or ask, "Is 'parent' the best word to describe you? What would be better?"

"Hormone levels change people's risks to blood clots and other things. Are you taking anything that might change your hormones?"

I've seen people take birth control pills inappropriately (ridiculous amounts) or herbs I've never studied that neither person would have called 'hormones.'

Trans* people have much higher risk of suicide and abuse, one trans* friend said that said she'd never go to the ER if she was feeling suicidal because far too many interactions reminded her of "the unfortunate legal truth" (her words) of who she really wasn't. She found the misgendering (being referred to as the wrong gender) not only as disrespectful, but really traumatic. This relationship to health care makes her more likely to die both from a mental health crisis or appendicitis or other treatable medical problems.

It's not just about being respectful or polite-- it's about creating an environment that people feel welcome in so that they come to us when they are sick. It's about preventing unnecessary deaths.

Here's more reading. I make an effort to read more and learn more; I believe it is worth your time too.

Is Your Trans Allyship Half-Baked? Here Are 6 Mistakes That Trans Allies Are Still Making - Everyday Feminism

If you are curious to who I am (not a green parrot), I identify in no particular order as: cis, white, woman, bisexual in a hetero open marriage

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