I had a baby 8 months ago. I had a birthplan, but the birth had a plan of it's own. I understand wanting to plan your experience, I had this amazing plan. I had to learn to let go of my nature to control things.
I had hypertension and was placed on mag, had variable decels, ended up with an epidural, ect.
Just remember that the ultimate goal of a birthplan is a healthy baby!
I became depressed about the delivery and finally I have started to let it go. I hope you don't think I am being a Debbie downer, I just don't want anyone to feel as depressed as I was about the experience. I kept replaying the delivery in my head thinking "what could I have done to not need that epidural?" I now know I am a strong woman with a beautiful baby!
I love my son so much. I wish you and your family a wonderful experience with your soon to be baby!
Happy mothers day! Give that little one a million kisses when they arrive!