Ok this post I know will open a whole big nasty can of worms but I need opinions and the truth . So here it goes I gave birth to my beautiful daughter on 6/17/08 I decided to breast feed via pumping and bottling it for the baby , she was not able to latch and get enough out of my breasts. My mother happens to be a L&D nurse, and she is all for breastfeeding , formula she has said is poison and her hospital she says does not even carry or promote formula because they consider it to harmful to babys health they even give out handouts via the la leche league warning mothers of formula. Well unfornunately my milk has run dry, due to the fact I am going to school and unable to pump while at school so my milk was and still is diminshing. So I had to supplement the breastmilk with formula . Well I decided to not tell my mother about the change for obvious reasons since she is so pro breastmilk etc. Well she babysits on Saturdays for me ( while I'm at school), she calls me up and says OMG I can't believe you are giving her formula shame on YOU!!!!! Then she hangs up and we do not talk for a good 3 days. She has told me I am a horrible mother and I am feeding my baby poison, and that my baby will not be smart as she could have been if she remained on breastmilk. So why is everybody so touchy about breastmilk and formula, I think nurses should educate mothers on options not forcing there personal preferences on the patients or the general public it is ultimately the mothers decision which should be respected. FYI I am a pre nursing student and have been watching for any signs of what my mom has called poison aka formula , my baby is doing FINE on formula