I've Been A Nurse For 5 Years & Still.....

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Don't know what to do...

So a good friend of mine who went to nursing school with me recently told me this. She is frustrated at her current job because she doesn't feel like she is learning anything and is reduced to task work like vital signs and phlebotomy. She said she left her last job (1st job out of nursing school) in ambulatory surgery hoping to find Cushier employment (no stress, no weekends, little responsibility) but now feels like she wants a challenge.

She has always commented on and applauded the fact that i have such a wide variety of skills and experience and can work in any specialty. I recently suggested she give acute care a try at least, even basic med-surg just to build her confidence and broaden her job opportunities. She said no way she will ever work in the hospital and that ever sine nursing school she didn't want to do bedside or deal with sick people. She even said she didn't want to go back to ambulatory surg and was thinking of L&D but when I explained how hectic and intense L&D could be she never mentioned wanting to do it again.

In ambulatory surg she mainly did plastic surgery type procedures but now she is hoping to get into the OR and move up. The problem is as we all know the job market is really tight, and I've tried to explain to her that merely having a few years of experience working here and there and a masters degree won't necessarily get you your dream job when you're going up against nurses with many years of varied and combined experience and education levels, employers are really being quite picky in what they want and want people with leadership skills and 5+ years experience for any masters level job which she admits she lacks. She has been looking to go back to amb surg which she didn't love but isn't finding many openings and was already not qualified enough for a job in her current line of work that someone she knew was going to set her with.

She's asked for advice but doesn't seem to want to consider anything that will require too much responsibility or stress and wants a simple 9-5 with good salary $80k+. She loves the idea of working in cath lab, L&D but does not immediately qualify. My suggestion to her was to get even a Few months of some type of acute care experience and then apply to what piques her interest so at least she's marketable. She young and still a relatively new nurse and there are nurses with 6mo-1 yr of experience who can function more independently. I don't know what other advice I can give, what do you guys think?

Specializes in Critical Care, ED, Cath lab, CTPAC,Trauma.

Really....one and a half years of nursing and she wants 9-5 and $80 grand....? I would advise a friend of mine to buck up buttercup....you have to work to get good money.

Specializes in ER, Trauma, Med-Surg/Tele, LTC.

Your friend reminds me of a Huffington Post blog called "Why Generation Y Yuppies Are Unhappy."

Happiness = Reality - Expectations

It's pretty straightforward -- when the reality of someone's life is better than they had expected, they're happy. When reality turns out to be worse than the expectations, they're unhappy.

Lol. It's an entertaining read if anyone's interested.

I thought nursing was marketed as an occupation with wide variety and a niche for just about everyone. Why then the insistence of dues being paid at the bedside?

Specializes in ED.

Nursing does have a wide variety, but just like anything else, there is a wide variety in pay. Not all areas in nursing pay the same, and there are positions that require 1 to 2 years clinical experience. Nursing is just like anything else, the more experience and skills you have, the more marketable you become. This is what leads to better pay.

Specializes in ER, Trauma, Med-Surg/Tele, LTC.
I thought nursing was marketed as an occupation with wide variety and a niche for just about everyone. Why then the insistence of dues being paid at the bedside?

Yes, there's a niche for everybody. And the OP has made it clear the niche her friend is looking for: standard 9-5 making over $80k in OR, cath lab, or L&D. Years of paying your dues at bedside are standard and expected before getting into those niches. And I don't think the OP's friend quite realizes that L&D IS bedside, or that OR isn't always M-F 9-5 -- OR nurses have to be on call sometimes. It's not that there isn't a niche for the OP's friend, it's that she already wants to be at the top without ever being at the bottom in the niche she wants.

I thought nursing was marketed as an occupation with wide variety and a niche for just about everyone. Why then the insistence of dues being paid at the bedside?

There is a wide variety... For nurses that have experience. When I moved out of state two years ago I had 8 job offers. That's because I had bedside experience. If I didn't have that experience I seriously doubt I would have had any of those offers.

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Your friend reminds me of a Huffington Post blog called "Why Generation Y Yuppies Are Unhappy." Lol. It's an entertaining read if anyone's interested.

I would love to read it. My sister and cousin are in this generation and boy do they fit this to a tee.

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Your friend reminds me of a Huffington Post blog called "Why Generation Y Yuppies Are Unhappy."

Lol. It's an entertaining read if anyone's interested.

It most definitely was entertaining. Oh, my goodness. This explains a lot.

Why Generation Y Yuppies Are Unhappy | Wait But Why

It most definitely was entertaining. Oh, my goodness. This explains a lot.

Why Generation Y Yuppies Are Unhappy | Wait But Why

It's a great piece ...

Specializes in Psych ICU, addictions.

I can live the OP's dream if I wanted (except that my specialty would not one of the three she selected). But it took a few years of dues-paying to get there: no one's going to hand me or anyone else that plum fresh out of school.

My philosophy is that I don't waste time trying to save people who prefer to drown. You and many others gave your friend sound advice. If she doesn't want to take it...well, she may have to figure out this one on her own.

Specializes in PCCN.
but doesn't seem to want to consider anything that will require too much responsibility or stress and wants a simple 9-5 with good salary $80k+.

:roflmao::roflmao::roflmao:

Specializes in Cardiology, Cardiothoracic Surgical.

Please tell her to let all of us know where we can find a low stress job with no weekends, 9-5, and awesome pay with minimal experience, once she finds it. I'd like one too!

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