Published Sep 8, 2014
TamiamaRebel
4 Posts
RN403, BSN, RN
1 Article; 1,068 Posts
There are many threads on this topic tha you might find of assistance.
You have to decide for yourself whether or not this is the best career for you. The best way to do this is to shadow a nurse. This way you can see for yourself what it really means to be a nurse and whether or not you would want to take it on and go through the schooling for it.
Best wishes.
JustVicky89
2 Posts
It all depend son you. Everyone is different. In my opinion, most people ago dislike being nurses are the ones who become one only for the $$.
Esme12, ASN, BSN, RN
20,908 Posts
How bad do you want to be a nurse?
Are you ready to work evenings and nights?
Are you ready to work holidays an weekends?
Are you ready to be responsible for everything yet have absolutely no control?
Are you ready to be yelled at by families and patients?
Are you willing to "put up" with all of this for those moments that really matter?
Being a Nurse Means…You will never be bored,You will always be frustrated,You will be surrounded by challenges,So much to do and so little time.You will carry immense responsibilityAnd very little authority.You will step into people’s lives,And you will make a difference.Some will bless you.Some will curse you.You will see people at their worst,And at their best.You will never cease to be amazed at people’s capacityFor love, courage, and endurance.You will see life beginand end.You will experience resounding triumphsAnd devastating failures.You will cry a lot.You will laugh a lot.You will know what it is to be humanAnd to be humane.—Melodie Chenevert, RN
Being a Nurse Means…
You will never be bored,
You will always be frustrated,
You will be surrounded by challenges,
So much to do and so little time.
You will carry immense responsibility
And very little authority.
You will step into people’s lives,
And you will make a difference.
Some will bless you.
Some will curse you.
You will see people at their worst,
And at their best.
You will never cease to be amazed at people’s capacity
For love, courage, and endurance.
You will see life begin
and end.
You will experience resounding triumphs
And devastating failures.
You will cry a lot.
You will laugh a lot.
You will know what it is to be human
And to be humane.
—Melodie Chenevert, RN
Would I do it over again? YES.
kgoode0919
53 Posts
You will have very bad days and you will have really good days. Just keep your head up and keep on keepin' on! At first it's hard to adjust to the long days or nights, not getting a single break, working 13-14 hour shifts, and being not only physically, but mentally and emotionally exhausted. You adapt.
goddess9
190 Posts
I am not a nurse, but I am in a helping profession. I've said it before and I'll say it again - it's always rough for those who help. Burnout is high and becoming jaded is easy. I'm looking from the outside and I understand what nursing requires. You have to make that decision for yourself.
Most people become frustrated with their jobs. Most jobs have some sort of ******** you have to just deal with. Nothing is perfect... Now, do the pros outweigh the cons for you?
NurseGirl525, ASN, RN
3,663 Posts
I think many people have a romanticized notion of what nursing is. They don't realize it is a job, just like any other field. They have this vision of walking around and saving people's lives and being appreciated for what they do all while making great money. They think their 3 12 hour shifts will be during weekdays. It's an unrealistic notion of what nursing is. People are mean and rude. You can get treated as a servant. There's not enough time during the day to get everything done. There's charting. If you are terrible at time management and are unorganized, you are going to struggle.
I honestly think people should work a year in either fast food or retail to get a taste of what the public is like. Then multiply that rudeness times 10 because usually in a hospital people are scared and at their worst.
On the other hand, you will be doing a very important job which is taking care of people at their worst and either helping them get better or comforting them when dying which in itself can be a very moving experience.
It all depends on how you approach it and your attitude. In absolutely every profession I have ever been in, there are people who hate their jobs and all they do is complain. They spend so much time complaining it affects every aspect of their lives. I choose to filter those people out of my head and focus on myself.
Also nursing is not the financial answer to everyone's problems. You will have school loans to pay back, you will still have all of your bills, maybe a few more, and if you have kids, they can suck every penny you have even if you make good money. The last one is me being sarcastic.
Before you make any decisions, really thoroughly research the field and decide for yourself what you want to do. Don't let anyone sway your decision. It's your life, you only get one, and you have to live it.
HouTx, BSN, MSN, EdD
9,051 Posts
AMEN -- what Heathermaizey said ^^^^^^^!
dream61792
290 Posts
In my opinion I believe people should become nurses at a younger age so they can gain the experience then decide if it is for them or if it is not. I know a lot of people who are second career seekers that went into nursing just for the money. I believe nursing is not for everyone just because you can pass nursing school and the NCLEX does not mean you are set out to be a nurse. I have encountered nurses with the the most horrible demeanor and others with a smile always on their face. It has to be something inside of you too deal with the stress day in and day out but at the end of the day say "I still love being a nurse".
wooh, BSN, RN
1 Article; 4,383 Posts
Is nursing the best career to choose ?
No. Professional baseball would definitely be better.
windsurfer8, BSN, RN
1,368 Posts
It is intense and challenging work. That is why we get paid pretty well. You have to deal with life and death situations. You are pushing medications that if administered incorrectly could seriously harm someone. You will be going with little sleep at times and forget guaranteed lunch breaks. You will be on the front lines when a patient starts to go downhill. I have been chewed out for calling docs at 2 am when I feel a patient is becoming septic. I have become an expert in providing objective evidence to doctors and have developed a thick skin. If I won the lottery would I keep nursing? Nope. However I do feel my career is a good one and provides me a pretty good living.
You have really have some good points and appreciate what you said.