I'm resigning my job today, need support & advice!!

Otessa, BSN, RN · Jul 23, 2006

If you haven't had any disciplinary actions they can only say that you quit and could be rehired-they can't give specifics.. If you don't put it on your resume it may come back to haunt you if you aren't truthful......

NaomieRN · Jul 23, 2006

If I were you, I would give them a 2 weeks notice, so that way you will leave on good term. Remember, never burn your bridges, you will need them in the future. Good luck to you

bargainhound, RN · Jul 23, 2006

You do not have to return tomorrow and give it to the DON.

You can give it to the supervisor on duty today.

I do agree that it would be best, however, to work 2 weeks

notice.

Antikigirl, ASN, RN · Jul 23, 2006

DEFINATLEY turn in a two week notice!

And yes you must put all employers on a resume and in your application. However, have in mind something to say about quitting for applications...because many ask why you left. Make it as proactive as you can...for instance instead of saying you left there because you were unhappy...put down, "gave in my two week notice in order to obtain a more perminent position with an employer where my skills are utilized more to their potential." or "in order to find employement with a stable facility whom I can be employed by for the long term." That shows exactly what you are looking for, and this is what you are looking for aren't you? :) Postive spin with facts!

Good luck with you, and choose your next job very carefully! I would ask your interviewer if you can speak to one of the RN's in private there so you can get a feel for the facility before agreeing to anything! I have been able to do that, turned down 2 jobs I thought I would love because they didn't seem like it from the start..but were overworking their nurses something fierce and they were not happy!

llg, PhD, RN · Jul 23, 2006

I agree with the posters above and can add another tip. Since you have not been in any trouble at your job, make sure you have a copy of your evaluations to take with you (assuming they were reasonably good). While you probably will never need them, you could use them in the future in lieu of a recommendation if you have to.

llg

CyndieRN2007 · Jul 24, 2006

Well, I turned in my letter after an uneventful shift. I will call the DON tomorrow to see if she got it.....or should I go in person?? Oh, and I am scheduled for an evaluation on Aug 1...last day of employment Aug 6.....

MA Nurse · Jul 24, 2006

I apologize in advance it this doesnt make sense, my mind is spinning....I have already wrote out my letter of resignation, and I'm so afraid to turn it in to the DON. I only work Sundays at the hospital I'm at now, so I will need to return tomorrow to give the letter to her. I'm miserable at this job for multiple reasons. My husband has been urging me to quit....but it is soooo against everything I believe in. I have never quit from a job before. I have just been hoping it will get better, but it hasnt. I have been there since March, and I have been unhappy ever since. Well, let me get to the point. Can they hurt me as a bad reference in the future? (I have never done anything there that would cause a bad reference, no write ups, nothing). Im paranoid. Especially if the DON gets upset when I tell her I'm quiting... Do I have to list this employment on future applications and resumes? FYI, Im currently working another job and I plan to stay there for a long time, but things happen....you know what I mean. I may need to apply for another job at some point in my life.... I appreciate any input....Thanks for listening.....

Make sure you give a 2 week notice. I just gave my notice after being at my job for 16 years. It's hard. Just leave gracefully.

frazkw · Jul 24, 2006

I totally understand how you feel about "quitting" your job because I am the same way (always try to stick things out). However, life is toooo short to do anything that you do not have to do or doesn't make you happy. If you are not in a financial bind and can afford it, I say go for it. You are a nurse which means that you are a valuable commodity who can find another job which may just be better. Believe in yourself and you just might find a better job that is great for you. Also if your husband feels the same way and you have his backing, trust him, he knows you better than we do. Hang in there!!

vamedic4, EMT-P · Jul 24, 2006

I'm so sorry to hear of your dilemma, but I think you are doing the right thing. Don't stay anywhere you're not happy. If you're not happy, you're prone to mistakes in judgement - we all know where that may lead.

Weigh your options on the two weeks notice. Personally, if I had a good experience with an employer I would definitely give two weeks. If I didn't, and they didn't respect me or my work...I wouldn't waste another breath and I'd quit on the spot. It sounds as if you were really not happy.

Best of luck to you.

vamedic4

SilentfadesRPA · Jul 24, 2006

It is very sad that you are feeling like you are so afraid of being professionally mared by simply resigning. I dont know what you expirienced at this facility however listen to your inner voice it wont steer you wrong.

I agree with vamedic4 that if you can work out two weeks however I have seen collegues that were so distressed by employment situations of bully bosses and dangerous facilities that leaving immediately was in thier best interest mentally and physically. There are not laws about this -- views yes and ethics yes. I have always given 4 weeks notice except one job.

I find it sad that you seem so afraid of this director almost terrified -- gee no one should have that much control over you. As a DON she is an administrator and I am sure have had others resign.

Why do you care if she gets upset? She is not your family or friend. You have done nothing wrong at all. I am concerned that you have such a need to make sure she got your resignation-- I am sure you handed it in to appropriate person that would make sure administration got it. I hope you can see the strength in yourself that you are not allowing you to be hurt anymore at work.

Take care of you and do not risk your career or yourself emotionally it is NOT worth it. Lets face facts -- this two week notice is right professionally but it is not worth your health or state of mind.

I wish you all the luck and am glad that you already have another job that your like and are able to envision staying in. That is great keep your eye on the future -- !

Hang in there --

Marc

CyndieRN2007 · Jul 25, 2006

Thanks everyone for the responses. I handed in my letter yesterday and no response yet. Do I call the DON?? or no??? :mad: