I Hate People (my rant)

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The Sum Up:

Why I hate people in general (reasons why):

*When they stare at me for over 3 seconds for no apparent reason! Especially, when I'm trying to eat a subway sandwich or something and they just feel the need to watch me eat. Or when I'm trying to fix my hair in a portable mirror and they just feel the need to glance at me more then twice. Once should be enough because it's rude!

*When they walk so slowww in front of me to the point where I just want to push them. Because I am a very impatient person to the point where the littlest things tick me off if it's not fast enough.

*I hate when people tries to start a conversation with me! So I just smile and nod my head and hope that they get the jist that I don't want to talk. And it's not even people in general, it's actually because I'm a bad conversationalist!

Why I dislike kids:

* I don't necessarily hate them but I do force myself to be nice as possible to them. However, I really don't like interacting with children unless it's to hold a baby.

*I don't want kids until my late 30s. Go figure. And I especially don't want to get married because every relationship I get into it only lasts for about 3 months because I love being a loner. If I'm going to work seeing people then I would like to come home and see no people.

But I love animals (I have 4 dogs)! However, I just don't see myself working with animals in the future because I would love to keep my hands in tact.

And no guys I am not trolling. This is really an everything for me and it's the reasons why it is so hard for me to commit to nursing. And I actually have an appointment set up with a therapist July 18 before I go off to nursing school and it's to find out why I really act this way.

So I just wanted to make this thread because after scrolling Allnurses for the last two days I find that threads like these are not common but their are people out there who is just like me and wants to go into nursing. I want to be a nurse because I find that I really like helping people and kids at their weakest points but other than that I hate people.

I've worked some hospice, and you truly have to be robotic to work in such a field yet the respect needs to be there. If you become attached to every one of them it will only make your job a living hell. So yes, I do believe a bland personality is perfect for hospice. She hates people yet still wants to help and comes on as a dark person? So yes, hypothetically if she gets in a nursing program and assuming she passes then maybe YES! I might have "suggested", hospice.

How many years have you been a nurse?

Specializes in Emergency, pediatrics.

Ugh always the same here! Make your point and then a win win, but loose or someone makes a valid point then by default show off ur resume! Look, I just wanted to suggest something that is all, pls don't read through the lines. Been a nurse for 20+

Joking! Agh guys, where's ur sense of humor?��

Sorry, I didn't think that post was funny.

Ugh always the same here! Make your point and then a win win, but loose or someone makes a valid point then by default show off ur resume! Look, I just wanted to suggest something that is all, pls don't read through the lines. Been a nurse for 20+

Hmm. Interesting. Trying to figure out why your education says pre nursing then.

Either way, you can find a way to not take your work home with you so to speak, and still find a way to be somewhat compassionate while on the clock to the person that is dying or suffering in front of you.

Regardless, this wasn't what the post is about. The post was about a person hating other humans, yet wanting to take care of them for whatever reason when they are at their weakest point. I agree with everyone when they say that if the OP truly does hate people as she says, then perhaps she should think of a different career path.

Specializes in Emergency, pediatrics.

Hope u told that the person with the morgue post also.

Hope u told that the person with the morgue post also.

Please use the quote feature so we know who you are talking to.

Also, dying and dead tend to be two different things.

Specializes in Emergency, pediatrics.

I don't know how to change that. I don't even know where you found that pre-nursing infoí ½í¸”

Specializes in Emergency, pediatrics.
Specializes in Emergency, pediatrics.
Please use the quote feature so we know who you are talking to.

Also, dying and dead tend to be two different things.

Really? "Different" means black/white, happy/sad, alive/dead. I think dying and dead are really in the same alley=) it's gone way too far lol peace I'm out

Specializes in Neuro/ ENT.

I'm confused... how does someone not see the difference between dead and dying? This is a fundamental item that any health care provider should really understand well.

Specializes in Palliative, Onc, Med-Surg, Home Hospice.
Maybe you can work in hospice home health? Minimal interaction and your near death all the time. Patients are quiet and unconscious!

Seriously? Do you know nothing of hospice care? You do interact with people. A lot.

And after reading your second post, I stand by what I say. I don't think you know much about hospice.

Specializes in Psych, Corrections, Med-Surg, Ambulatory.
Really? "Different" means black/white, happy/sad, alive/dead. I think dying and dead are really in the same alley=) it's gone way too far lol peace I'm out

Are you related to any Winklers or McMaths?

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