I got reprimanded at work for not using a bra !

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Something happened to me at Wednesday that i thought i would never hear.

I was told by my team leader that bouncing breasts are very inappropriate in the workplace.

There had been several complains on me for a long time (she claims).

And that i from now on, always had to use a bra.

Was she right to correct me like that, should i complain on her ?

It's okay for us to be handling other people's bare body parts all day long, but we need to be strapped, covered and shapeless? Why's that? Just a philosophical question.

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It's okay for us to be handling other people's bare body parts all day long, but we need to be strapped, covered and shapeless? Why's that? Just a philosophical question.

Huh? What is wrong with being covered with a layer or two of clothing? Most of us would prefer the protection against "skin-to-skin contact" when handling other people's bare body parts (PPE). And bras usually aid in shaping the female breasts...I'm not talking Madonna cones, though.

Maybe a poll should be taken of professional male athletes if they object to wearing jock straps or cups for protection while "at work" (and at practice).

The fact that this never crossed your mind, is perhaps another good reason to wear a bra :).

I don't think my manager was wrong to point this out since it had created a few reactions. My first reaction was that she could have told me before. Still it's my responsibility entirely. I thought that giving my shoulders a rest from the bra some times would go unnoticed. It did not, and far from it. BTW "Grateful4Blessings" i work with rehabilitation, so there is no life and death situation, (not that it matters).

My biggest concern now is that i hope i will not be remembered as the braless nurse :(. I am always using a bra at work now, still i feel some anxiety for jiggling. I am glad that every one has given their honest opinion. Still i am slightly surprised of all the reactions. Are there so few that have never reflected over how not using a bra in the western culture have become so stigmatised ? Is it really just if a woman are wearing a bra because they believe that it is part of the cultural norm and that not wearing a bra would lead to social exclusion ?

i havent read the original post in a while, and yes the concept of HAVING to wear something that doesnt really serve a useful purpose is irksome.....and i have been under the impression that they do nothing to delay sagging, that is a matter of gravity, age, and hormones (pregnancy)......

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and i have been under the impression that they do nothing to delay sagging, that is a matter of gravity, age, and hormones (pregnancy)......

Lalalala Lalalala I'm not listening!!! (fingers in ears):cry:

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Think all has been said that can be said. To quote a previous post:

Thanks to the advice given by our members confirming: professional setting requires professional appearance, including bra and appropriate underwear.
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