It was a rough night last night. The resident was one I had worked with for years and I loved that resident. I had never seen that much mottling. Family was at bedside. Resipirations 60. Unresponsive. Eyes looked pained, not normal dying. No Morphine order, just oxycodone and tylenol rectally. Gave tylenol and 10mg oxycodone per prn orders. 50 minutes later resident dead.
I know I didn't kill him, the disease did, but my heart hurts. I feel responsible. An elevation in vital signs can indicate pain in an unresponsive person, right? Right? He was also twitching his eye brows and occasionally clenching his fists. After working with him for years, I loved this one. He suffered as many years as I worked with him, he needed to go, so why am I grieving?
Just needed to debrief. Thanks.