How many visits make a frequent flyer.

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How many visits do they have before you would officially label them a frequent flyer? I'm sending letters home to parents of those I know are definately frequent flyers but was wondering how many times a parent would agree was too many and that I wasn't just trying to shirk my responsibilities.

If I was told my child had seen the nurse more than 3-4 times of vague complaints (not legitimate things like injuries, fevers, etc) then I'd be having a talk with my kid about skipping class but I know for many that's nothing so would 10 be a good number to start with? I know about half the school I see less than 5 times a year and others I see 5 times a month. A lot of this depends on the teacher but I've learned they don't see a problem with it and most refuse to change. We have one teacher who sent her students over 500 times this year!! The principal is aware but she literally doesn't say no to anything no matter how stupid. She will send them if they complain about itching on an arm for a few seconds where there's nothing there! Her class must be really BORING! :banghead:

I've had success in the past working with the parents but wanted ideas on a good starting point of number of visits that's too many because I ususally only talk to the parents of those that have a huge number and I want to start stopping this before it gets too huge. (There are some I know having family issues, school issues, etc but I'm talking about those I know it's just because they're getting away with getting out of class all the time.) Thanks!

"nurse's week" is the same week as Teacher Appreciation week here, so I get the benefit of the PTA bringing in lunch for the teachers. But NOT ONCE has anyone acknowledged that it is nurse's week, let alone "School Nurse Day". Very indicative of how the school views us.

Another NY nurse here. A teacher sent a kid to me today because she didn't eat as much as usual. Meanwhile, this is a ten year old who is probably obese. The teacher was scared that the child was starving herself because she didn't finish both of her sandwiches. More likely she wanted to go out to the yard and run around.

By the way, is it only my school that celebrates administrative professional week during nurse's week

NO!!!

It was great seeing our secretary (SW and I share one in out suite) get flowers and wine while I got ****.

Specializes in Acute Care, CM, School Nursing.
"nurse's week" is the same week as Teacher Appreciation week here, so I get the benefit of the PTA bringing in lunch for the teachers. But NOT ONCE has anyone acknowledged that it is nurse's week, let alone "School Nurse Day". Very indicative of how the school views us.

Last year took the cake for me... The school I was at celebrated Boss' Day for the principal (collection for gift card and flowers), administrative assistant day/week (office secretaries received flowers and beautiful new desk lamps), staff appreciation week (bus drivers and custodians were recognized and given a breakfast), teacher appreciation week (everyone expected to donate for a hot catered lunch and bring in breakfast goodies). I was lumped in with "staff", I guess? Nobody ever mentioned a nurse's day/week celebration. When they started a collection for a PTA appreciation lunch, I finally put my foot down, and "forgot" to contribute. Right or wrong, it bugged me. :mad: Then at the end of the school year faculty meeting, the principal gave each teacher a hardcover copy of some inspirational book. The TA's got something as well (I can't remember what?), and the custodians and secretaries each got a little gift bag (I don't know what was in it). Me? Nada. I felt like a huge idiot, sitting there watching everyone on staff receiving gifts. Again, I guess I was lumped into the general "thanks for what you do" part of the speech.

I always say, school nurses are treated like toilet paper. Everyone needs it all the time. But nobody really gives it a thought until it's not there...

Sorry, I am a huge downer. It has been a terrible year for me. LOL

I always say, school nurses are treated like toilet paper. Everyone needs it all the time. But nobody really gives it a thought until it's not there...

I am SO using this.

Specializes in Pediatrics/Developmental Pediatrics/Research/psych.
NY school nurses unite to stop the nonsense!!! ;)

Anyone else going to NYSSHC Seminar in Long Island next week?

Anyone else going to NYSSHC Seminar in Long Island next week?

Nooooooooooooooooooooooooooo!!!!! :(

I'm on the email list and I never got anything on it!

I would like to get as educated as possible, because while I have loads of experience it is not in SCHOOL nursing.

I'm kind of bummed now.

Specializes in Pediatrics/Developmental Pediatrics/Research/psych.

Farawyn,

The seminar was wonderful. They should have all of the resources on the website by today. Sorry you couldn't come. I would've loved to meet you

Farawyn,

The seminar was wonderful. They should have all of the resources on the website by today. Sorry you couldn't come. I would've loved to meet you

I couldn't go this year either but they do put the info online and it is always great to go when you can. Maybe another year the NY nurses will met up.

Last year took the cake for me... The school I was at celebrated Boss' Day for the principal (collection for gift card and flowers), administrative assistant day/week (office secretaries received flowers and beautiful new desk lamps), staff appreciation week (bus drivers and custodians were recognized and given a breakfast), teacher appreciation week (everyone expected to donate for a hot catered lunch and bring in breakfast goodies). I was lumped in with "staff", I guess? Nobody ever mentioned a nurse's day/week celebration. When they started a collection for a PTA appreciation lunch, I finally put my foot down, and "forgot" to contribute. Right or wrong, it bugged me. :mad: Then at the end of the school year faculty meeting, the principal gave each teacher a hardcover copy of some inspirational book. The TA's got something as well (I can't remember what?), and the custodians and secretaries each got a little gift bag (I don't know what was in it). Me? Nada. I felt like a huge idiot, sitting there watching everyone on staff receiving gifts. Again, I guess I was lumped into the general "thanks for what you do" part of the speech.

I always say, school nurses are treated like toilet paper. Everyone needs it all the time. But nobody really gives it a thought until it's not there...

Sorry, I am a huge downer. It has been a terrible year for me. LOL

That's terrible! I have to say I am very lucky with the PTA and parents we have at my school. I am always included in Teacher appreciation day and each year the teachers get the kids to do something nice for me for Nurse's Day. One year it was a banner signed by all the kids, last year each child decorated a nurse's cap and write thank you for ________ and filled in the blank. They put them all on the wall outside my door. I was so surprised-I cried. Being a small school helps I think.

Since starting this job I make sure to acknowledge my sons' school nurses with a little note and gift at Christmas and School Nurse's Day.

Hope your year gets better!

That's terrible! I have to say I am very lucky with the PTA and parents we have at my school. I am always included in Teacher appreciation day and each year the teachers get the kids to do something nice for me for Nurse's Day. One year it was a banner signed by all the kids, last year each child decorated a nurse's cap and write thank you for ________ and filled in the blank. They put them all on the wall outside my door. I was so surprised-I cried. Being a small school helps I think.

Since starting this job I make sure to acknowledge my sons' school nurses with a little note and gift at Christmas and School Nurse's Day.

Hope your year gets better!

It's so nice to hear that at least ONE school nurse is appreciated. I have a small school as well, about 250 students. Have been here two years, and not once have I been shown any type of appreciation by the administration/staff here. Most ppl employed here think they know my job and always want to put their two cents in when they think a student needs assessing or when they disagree with my assessment findings.

There's a bulletin board outside the main office titled "Wall of Knowledge." It has a picture of every staff member (school aides, IT guy, and parent coordinator included) with the name of the colleges they graduated from. Guess whose picture isn't on that wall... yup, MINE! It's a darn shame.

Already received an e-mail reminding us that Teacher Appreciation week is coming up, I rolled my eyes at the e-mail, lol.

Oh and guess what, NY nurse here! LOL, what a coincidence. I think we need to move elsewhere.

Sorry for the rant :bag:

Is there a good rule of thumb for frequent flyers in the early years? 8 to 10 a month seems high especially if there are issues at home. When should I reach out to the parents? One particular boy has been to my office 20 times just since the first of March. He says everything's fine but I'm hearing that his parents are going through a divorce.

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