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Has she been to a dentist yet?
We get a LOT of children for dental repairs and extractions that are 3 years old, have 8 teeth, and 7 of them are shot (thanks to bottlemouth). That young and already having dental problems. I don't have any tips for getting a toddler to brush, but please just keep trying.
My dentist always said baby teeth can be wiped with a soft cloth, then later when more foods are introduced let them be the guide at first. Dont try to hold the baby and "do it right". Let them explore with the toothbrush in a controlled clean environment. EVERYTHING goes in a toddlers mouth. Let them just chew on the brush until they can be accepting of small "lessons" about the tooth brush. And by all means dont expect a little one not to be real suspicious of a tooth brush if someone has tried to put that thing in their mouth and brush their teeth for them with any nasty tooth paste on it. The consistency and initial taste of the toothpaste itself will clamp those jaws shut.
Start them at the dentist office for "happy visits" around 3 when hopefully there wont be anything wrong to be fixed. I havent ever had trouble getting my kids to the dentist, but i wish i could say they never had a cavity. Although they didnt when they were little, its when they get adolescent age that those visits start getting a little more costly.
Duct tape and a tranquilizer. J/K The thing that finally worked for my kids was the finger tip tooth brush. It is a tooth brush thats slips on your finger.
I also let them "brush" (more like chew on it) their own teeth first, so they were more willing to let me try.
Just keep trying. It will get easier as they get older. Try making it fun, by letting her pick out her own brush and tooth paste. sometimes they just want to feel in control and by letting them pick out what they want to use will make it easier.
HTH
Erin
Bingo! That's what worked for my nieces - they both started out using the same thing (Actually, the elder kid picked her own one out. Then the younger one insisted on picking her own but picked the same kind as her sisterTry making it fun, by letting her pick out her own brush and tooth paste. sometimes they just want to feel in control and by letting them pick out what they want to use will make it easier.HTH
Erin
I frankly don't care S'long as their teeth get cleaned
I've got bad teeth myself and a boderline phobia of the dentist office (just one example: 3 root canals done on the same tooth :uhoh21: )
And the white stuff on their tongue isn't thrush (unless it's curdy white - literally looks like curds. I'm on a thin edge here, medical advice and all) - but I'm pretty sure it's gunk.... 'specially milk gunk!
It should scrape right off with water and a washcloth :)
I have three youngins, 2, 3, and 4. My older two were very easy to teach how to brush. I started them early with baby toothbrushes and baby orajel toothpaste (with little bear on it). As they got older I started letting them brush their own teeth with the baby toothbrushes. Then, as they started eating more bacteria causing foods I transitioned them to adult toothpaste and character shaped electric toothbrushes. I would allow them to start, but then I told them that mommy needed to help so that all the nasties got out. Oral hygiene is very time intensive in this house. With my son he is still using a baby toothbrush. Just last week I started letting him do it himself to start. He was very difficult at first, but once he saw his big sisters doing it he became more accepting. Now that it is routine it is no big deal. Kids thrive on routine.
As for the dentist, our family dentist would not, as policy, see the children before age 4. I needed them to have dental records for the preschool they were going to so they saw all three, but the younger two only got their teeth brushed, no xrays... Check with your family dentist about when they start seeing toddlers/preschoolers.
I didn't use much toothpaste when my girls were that young, just a soft, easy-to-hold brush. I gave it to them when they were in the tub, and they'd chew on it while I washed them up. In the morning, they used the toothbrush at the sink with their special cups. They were little teddy bear-shaped cups with an attached toothbrush holder that came from the dentist's office. My 8 year old still has hers!
Meerkat
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I'm a single, new(ish) mom, and I'm having a devil of a time brushing DD's teef. Granted, she doesn't exactly have a mouthful of teeth, maybe 6 or 7, but I don't want them to rot. She howls like a banshee when she sees the toothbrush and then clamps her mouth shut.
She arches her back and and screams if I try to make her brush!
I even have a toddler toothbrush and baby toothpaste for her! How did you all brush your babies' teeth? She is getting white spots on her tongue (maybe thrush?).