Hi All,
I'm new here. I wanted to ask a quick question on behalf of a friend of mine, who is currently finishing up her second to last semester of nursing school.
She's a smart woman, who got mostly A's with one or two B's on her nursing school pre-requisities. And she puts in the effort - when she describes to me what she does every day, I don't see how she (or anyone else) could possibly spend more time studying and practicing.
Unfortunately, whereas during the beginning of nursing school, most of her exams she was scoring in the A-/B+ range, her grades have steadily declined to the B-/C+ range. At the same time, her frusteration levels have been going up - she just isn't getting a corelation between her effort and academic success. Every time she gets results from an exam and they're less than what she hoped for, she says to me "I guess I'm just not cut out to be a nurse".
Not being a nurse, I've tried to give her the best advice I can, which is this - I have to think (or at least hope) that nursing school is a barrier to entering the nursing profession, but that once overcome, the "real" knowledge is going to come from on-the-job experience. That several years down the road after she graduates, the grades she received in nursing school will have little bearing on how good of a nurse she is, just so long as she tries her best and her grades are enough to graduate.
I'm of course trying to encourage her to do her very best and to get the best grades she can in nursing school - I'm not encouraging her to just try and just skate by. I'm just trying to help her not to get too discouraged or to despair too much, to tell her that yes, she really can do this, even if she's not getting A's all the time.
But I think both she and I would probably feel a lot better if any of you who are actual practicing nurses could tell us that there is really something to the advice I'm giving her, that I'm not just talking nonsense, if indeed that was the case. So I'd really appreciate hearing feedback on this from some of you.
Thanks very much for any help!