Wrongful Suspension

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Recently I transferred states and my nursing aide license. I have been working at a new facilty for 3 weeks. I showed up for work and was informed I had been suspended. I checked my voicemail and had two new voicemails. One stated, "I had complaints you were being not so nice to a resident". I was also informed not to come into work for the weekend because I had been suspended. Immediately after another voicemail stated to call back this evening, to come in on Monday, or they would see me at work on Tuesday. I recieved calls again later on saturday, and was asked if I wanted to come in on sunday. I accepted and got more details on my suspension sunday evening. I had been informed the incident in question occured in a bathroom with a resident, and another aide. The conversation was about the resident in the room. The other aide asked how they were doing. I stated "She gave me hell last night" I also stated immediately after "I still love you though,_insert name_". This was reported to the head CNA on the hall. Who felt it necessary to report to the head boss and not the charge nurses The decision was made to suspend me without even confronting me. The charge nurses had heard nothing of the incident until saturday when I arrived. My name was crossed off the schedule, so I checked my voicemail and find out about the suspension. I informed the charge nurses. This proved to be my saving grace. They called the head boss and defended me. Thus, I was called back later that night. I was also informed once suspended during the probationary period you don't come back.

The issue with this whole scenario is I am currently pursuing my registered nursing career. I have a son on the way and am the only income for my family. I plan on continuing a long career with this hospital in the future. I feel this suspension wasn't valid. This wasn't slander or liable. This wasn't neglect considering I took the resident to the bathroom promptly when asked. This wasn't verbal abuse as I wasn't putting the resident down or calling them names. Finally this wasn't emotional abuse as I wasn't trying to convince the resident to change their opinion or beliefs. The resident wasn't even phased by the comment.

Is it just me or was I really out of line? If you considered me out of line was this harsh punishment (pretty much fired) appropriate? Should I consider legal action? For reputation damage, and slander?? I am not sure what exactly was said to the head boss, but I feel it must have been exaggerated to come to such a harsh punishment. Not to mention the fact that the person reporting wasn't there when the incident occured. Also this person works on a different shift (we all know about shift rivalry).

Here is an update for everyone!!

As for the other CNA's they were informed of the legal actions that I could have taken against them for slander. They were also informed from now they will use the correct chain of command.

I am very thankful for the way this situation turned out. It showed me who my enemies were who my friends are. Also that my charge nurses, and boss aren't unreasonable. I am also aware to watch my mouth, and do realize how lucky I am this turned out the way it did.

Also, Thank you everyone for your posts!! Both sides were taken into consideration, even those who disagreed with me. I also that it would be fun to add, that I am not female. Shocking, I know. I got a kick out of everypost that referred to me as "SHE"!! Hopefully we all learned a little about this situation.

Hi,

I'm glad everything turned out the way it did for you (frankly, I am surprised that you're male, as this kind of backstabbing is far more common among women). That said, watch your back from now on. Unfortunately, these other CNAs are now your enemies and will try to "get you". I speak from experience, I wish it weren't so.

Keep your nose clean, avoid the troublemakers if possible, and one day you will hopefully be their boss ;)

Good luck,

DeLana

Specializes in Emergency Dept. Trauma. Pediatrics.

Hmmmmmmm you say in another thread that you are pregnant, so if you are not a female how are you pregnant?

Hmmmmmmm you say in another thread that you are pregnant, so if you are not a female how are you pregnant?

interesting...

yep, 7 months pregnant.

now i'm totally confused.

op?

leslie

Specializes in Emergency Dept. Trauma. Pediatrics.
interesting...

yep, 7 months pregnant.

now i'm totally confused.

op?

leslie

Mystery solved, fiance and her are sharing the account, we were expected to know that ;)

This thread was the first thread posted under this account....Should I have started a new account when he has no intention on posting here anymore....

The point of the comment was to show that people were quick to assume I was female. When I had never posted on this site before and hadn't specified other wise.

It was a scenario just like the riddle....

"A man and his son are in a car wreck....the Doctor walks in to treat the boy and states, "I can't operate on this boy he is my son" How is this possible?" HIS MOTHER WAS THE DOCTOR

This is a lesson teaching riddle that teachs people (especially in a generation where face to face communication is becoming rare) not to judge...

An understanding of this will help people be open-minded about radical suggestions. It also teaches people to still be polite, considerate, and professional behind the mask of the internet, or texting.

For future readers do not fear, this is solely my account from now on. Based on the negative statements and lack of understanding, I will insist he gets his own account for posting!!

Specializes in Emergency Dept. Trauma. Pediatrics.

Thank You for this important life lesson :stone

Specializes in Emergency Dept. Trauma. Pediatrics.
This thread was the first thread posted under this account....Should I have started a new account when he has no intention on posting here anymore....

The point of the comment was to show that people were quick to assume I was female. When I had never posted on this site before and hadn't specified other wise.

It was a scenario just like the riddle....

"A man and his son are in a car wreck....the Doctor walks in to treat the boy and states, "I can't operate on this boy he is my son" How is this possible?" HIS MOTHER WAS THE DOCTOR

This is a lesson teaching riddle that teachs people (especially in a generation where face to face communication is becoming rare) not to judge...

An understanding of this will help people be open-minded about radical suggestions. It also teaches people to still be polite, considerate, and professional behind the mask of the internet, or texting.

For future readers do not fear, this is solely my account from now on. Based on the negative statements and lack of understanding, I will insist he gets his own account for posting!!

FYI, your first statement clarify's this is you the female posting this post, so your second sentence saying "people were quick to assume I was female" Ummm you are female, according to you ;)

If you want to post the little male or female symbol to clarify by all means please do, but I am not going to make every post as he/she him/her just to be safe, if I sort of just go with what everyone else is going with, then so be it. If the person was that concerned about being mistaken, they should clarify at the beginning or with their account.

I come here to interact with my peers, male or female, that have something in common (nursing in some form), not to get irrelevant life lessons by trickery, or because I am not psychic and am not going to have to make every post of mine political correct because one doesn't want to clarify.

I get handouts for my kids at their well child check ups, they alternate between he and she on the topics I am assuming to not have to add both for every time they mention it. I don't make a fuss about them saying HE when it was my daughter that had the check up. Why? Why should I. I got the what they were getting at.

Specializes in Cardiac Telemetry, ED.

Thank you for the update, and I'm glad things turned out the way they did.

Specializes in LTC, Med/Surg, Peds, ICU, Tele.
This thread was the first thread posted under this account....Should I have started a new account when he has no intention on posting here anymore....

The point of the comment was to show that people were quick to assume I was female. When I had never posted on this site before and hadn't specified other wise.

It was a scenario just like the riddle....

"A man and his son are in a car wreck....the Doctor walks in to treat the boy and states, "I can't operate on this boy he is my son" How is this possible?" HIS MOTHER WAS THE DOCTOR

This is a lesson teaching riddle that teachs people (especially in a generation where face to face communication is becoming rare) not to judge...

An understanding of this will help people be open-minded about radical suggestions. It also teaches people to still be polite, considerate, and professional behind the mask of the internet, or texting.

For future readers do not fear, this is solely my account from now on. Based on the negative statements and lack of understanding, I will insist he gets his own account for posting!!

Good Grief... :rolleyes:

Now this is turning into some sort of game? We have (supposedly) two people post under one account, then one of them judgmentally scolds people for making the false assumption that one of the two people is male and that we are negative and presumptuous for making a false assumption that the OP was female?

"An understanding of this will help people be open-minded about radical suggestions"--- What sort of nonsensical statement is that? I have a radical suggestion: Hold on to your job, finish school, and try not to get on the bad side of your co-workers. If you come across the wrong way then you are shooting your own self in the foot. Also, when you are not communicating 'face to face' and want people to know that you are male or female, do clarify that fact ahead of time if it is important to you...

Specializes in ICU.
Good Grief... :rolleyes:

Now this is turning into some sort of game? We have (supposedly) two people post under one account, then one of them judgmentally scolds people for making the false assumption that one of the two people is male and that we are negative and presumptuous for making a false assumption that the OP was female?

"An understanding of this will help people be open-minded about radical suggestions"--- What sort of nonsensical statement is that? I have a radical suggestion: Hold on to your job, finish school, and try not to get on the bad side of your co-workers. If you come across the wrong way then you are shooting your own self in the foot. Also, when you are not communicating 'face to face' and want people to know that you are male or female, do clarify that fact ahead of time if it is important to you...

lol I agree... jeeze.

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