Thouroughly Disgusted......comments and suggstions please

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Specializes in Med/Surg.

My fellow student is sleeping with a couple of the teachers in our school. She applied for a student secratery position within the department and is using both of them as references. what do you think?:uhoh3:

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Specializes in OB.

I think that they will probably give her very good references :)

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Specializes in Looking for a career in NICU.

First, I would check to see if your school has a policy against fraternization between students and the faculty...not all of them do, and that includes having sex with them.

Second, if the student is NOT taking classes from these professors OR is NOT majoring in a course of study where the professors are in the same department, I would say NOTHING. She isn't benefiting from the arrangement and if she wants to be the school sl*t, then that is her business. Remember, those professors have homes to pay for, and they are adults, as she is. I could care less whether the school allowed it or not.

Third, IF she is taking classes from one of them or her major involves their department, then it needs to be reported for the professor's protection as well as hers. She could just be a ho, but she could be setting them up for a sexual harrassment charge too.

Mary Baldwin College, in Staunton, VA, students and professors openly dated all the time, even married on some occassion. However, there were limits to it.

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Specializes in Tele, ICU, ER.

I'm curious -do the 2 teachers she's sleeping with know about each other?

As with so much else, if it's not affecting your own grades/opportunities (you're not also going for that job are you?), then I'd leave it alone.

This sort of stuff tends to blow up all on its own, without any help at all. Tend to your own garden and wait for the 4th of July.

My 2 cents.

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Specializes in Looking for a career in NICU.
I'm curious -do the 2 teachers she's sleeping with know about each other?

PROBABLY NOT! HA! :lol2:

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Specializes in 5 yrs OR, ASU Pre-Op 2 yr. ER.
My fellow student is sleeping with a couple of the teachers in our school. She applied for a student secratery position within the department and is using both of them as references. what do you think?:uhoh3:

Not much you can do unless you have actual proof of that happening.

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Specializes in OB.
PROBABLY NOT! HA! :lol2:

now THAT might seriously harm her grade/references!!!!!!!!

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Specializes in Nephrology, Cardiology, ER, ICU.

Who says you need to do anything?

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Specializes in cardiac med-surg.

someone in nursing school has time for that frolicking ?

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my health ethics professor taught us that we would get in trouble if we know about something going on like professor-student affair and we tell other people about it and it ends up being out in the open that the people involved could sue us... even if there were video proofs... what do you guys think?

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Specializes in Nephrology, Cardiology, ER, ICU.

Forget it - their private lives are just that - private. I don't have a clue who is sleeping with whom and don't care. I simply have no time for it, nor do I reallly care.

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I'm with Trauma, I don't care who sleeps with who, in what position, husbands, wives, etc. I just don't care.

We're all adults and know the ramifications of sleeping with a man who is married.

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