I am so hurt

  1. I belong to three clubs and this forum. Someone sent me a nasty email from one of those places. This person acused me of not being an RN which I take offense to. I paid my student loans for four year believe me I am an RN. This person called me a liar and other names. Yes I have been offered and accepted several jobs in the past two months and YES those places were really screwed up. I do not want to risk my license doing things that are either illegal, immoral or unethical. If you think companies are not operating out there like that you are sadly mistaken. I come to this board for support and to GIVE Support. Right now I am mentoring 5 students trying to help them grow as professionals. I open my heart to this group and someone has the nerve to write me, not sign their name and tell me people in the group are talking about me behind my back. I don't get it. Nurses do eat their young. I am not young either by the way LOL. This persons email addy is as follows:


    Brian is this true? Do you think this note came from here? I would like to talk with this person to resolve his or her hostility....


    and yes my real name is susan
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    RN, MS home health


  3. by   aus nurse
    Ah Renerian, I am sorry that you had to receive something like that. Unfortunately there are mean people in this world with nothing better to do than cause hurt.
    Your posts here are eloquent and insightful. You obviously speak from an RN's experience.
    If anyone is talking about you behind your back, which I highly doubt, then let them waste their time.
    They are a waste of time, full stop.
    Don't let the turkeys get you down.:kiss
  4. by   renerian
    Thanks Aus Nurse. I appreciate you talking time to post to me as I am distressed.

    Take care,

  5. by   sanakruz
  6. by   Q.
    Hi Renerian. I'm a Susan too.

    Nothing surprises me anymore, the nastiness and hostility that people carry. You can't escape it, either in real life or internet communities.

    Probably much easier said than done, but forget about it. You can't reason with ignorance, which is clearly what this person has displayed. Your posts here are intelligent, articulate and insightful. I have no doubts you speak from experience. Screw 'em.
  7. by   renerian
    Thanks suzy and psyc nurse........mean people suck LOL that made me smile.....big..............thanks for responding.....

    Your posts here are intelligent, articulate and insightful. I have no doubts you speak from experience. Screw 'em.
    I agree wholeheartedly!!!
  9. by   ceecel.dee
    Small people are somehow made to feel bigger and better by trying to diminish the bigger and better ones. You are one of those, from where I sit. Don't you let them scare you off!

    And you little girls out there talking behind backs...is there something you want to share with the group? If not, keep it to yourself!
  10. by   renerian
    Thanks Shelly!!!!!!10 days and counting till your cruise.........enjoy the sun for me............remember to use sunscreen so you don't end up with all those funky brown patches.........got those all over my face with my pregnancies but I did not avoid the sun as I am a sun worshiper........

    enjoy yourself,

  11. by   renerian
    Thanks ceecel...........You know I used to have a stuffed sea serpent when I was a kid named ceecel.........now I am showing my age..................LOL.

  12. by   Mkue
    Ren, you don't deserve that, no one does, it's none of their business what job you choose or not choose.. really.. I'm ready to grab Vegas's purse
  13. by   renerian
    Thanks kue. It is nice to see people's friendly comments. I appreciate all your kind words everyone.

  14. by   BadBird

    It sounds to me like someone is jelous of you and your success. It does not sound like a mature person who would write such hate e-mail. I know you feel bad and I wish I had some words to take away your pain, just remember success is the best revenge, you are a RN, you will find a job that you love and whomever wrote that will probably be a miserable bytch their entire lives.