Gender, a fluid social construct

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What if a female patient who wants a catheter, requests a female nurse, and the male looking nurse says they identify as a woman.

This may sound silly, but I had a 40yr female colleague (at least she looked female) tell me that gender is a 'fluid social construct' and that it is wrong to assume someone is a man or women just because they look like one.

If this is what society is teaching us, and our children, then what happens when people can't agree on who is man or woman anymore?

Of course, in this instance, you'd get the patient a traditional looking female, but then could the male looking nurse, who identifies as female, claim some sort of discrimination, or even blame the employer for putting them in such a humiliating position?

Specializes in OR.

Interesting side note... Medicare won't pay for a TURP if the pt declares themselves (on the paperwork anyway)as female. Did one recently, doc told us that little tidbit because the pt was really unhappy about having to put down male when she's been living as a female (post transformation surgery) for over 20 years.

Specializes in Pediatric.

Gender is a fluid social construct? Are you sure? I thought it was determined by x and Y chromosomes. Lol.

Gender *is* a fluid social construct.

Sex refers to someone's biological status.

https://www.apa.org/pi/lgbt/resources/sexuality-definitions.pdf

Gender is a fluid social construct? Are you sure? I thought it was determined by x and Y chromosomes. Lol.

Nope.

Specializes in ICU.

This is the most absurd thing I have ever heard. Well, maybe not, I'm thinking about crazy boarding school stories.

What at woman wants a catheter? And if they indeed have to get one, worries about whether or not the nurse looks like a man or woman?

I pitied some of the nurses who I worked with,

who as very masculine looking/mannerism females,

yet identified as strongly hetero - not only did they

have a hard time getting a quality male date, they

were subject to being hassled by lesbians who regarded

them as being in 'denial'.. or 'traitors'..

Not to mention being asked things by insensitive patients,

like:

"Were you born male? " , "How many times a day do you have to shave?

&, "So you really got the cut huh? Wow."

The same goes for feminine appearing males, but a bit less so, I think..

Specializes in ED, med-surg, peri op.
catheters? again? really? Welcome back, nursingaround1.

Oh man! This was to funny.

I know this is a old post, but I have just finished reading the catheter post. After finally finding another NZ nurse on here I had to see what other post he has done.

Very surprising the different culture of American nurses on here, never agreed with them. Always get Americans arguing with me on here. I would never consider going to the US to work.....

Specializes in Critical Care and ED.
I pitied some of the nurses who I worked with,

who as very masculine looking/mannerism females,

yet identified as strongly hetero - not only did they

have a hard time getting a quality male date, they

were subject to being hassled by lesbians who regarded

them as being in 'denial'.. or 'traitors'..

Not to mention being asked things by insensitive patients,

like:

"Were you born male? " , "How many times a day do you have to shave?

&, "So you really got the cut huh? Wow."

The same goes for feminine appearing males, but a bit less so, I think..

Sterotype much?

Oh man! This was to funny.

I know this is a old post, but I have just finished reading the catheter post. After finally finding another NZ nurse on here I had to see what other post he has done.

Very surprising the different culture of American nurses on here, never agreed with them. Always get Americans arguing with me on here. I would never consider going to the US to work.....

That's okay. We don't have a nursing shortage. Have fun in NZ!

catheters? again? really? Welcome back, nursingaround1.

Hahaha...ok, so I read the OP without looking at the username. And I thought "what in the world??? What is this person even really asking? Did this actually happen? Surely he would never tell a patient that another coworker is transgender? Why does he care so much about who identifies as what?" And then you shed the light on the issue.

I'm just cracking up right now.

Hahaha...ok, so I read the OP without looking at the username. And I thought "what in the world??? What is this person even really asking? Did this actually happen? Surely he would never tell a patient that another coworker is transgender? Why does he care so much about who identifies as what?" And then you shed the light on the issue.

I'm just cracking up right now.

Oh deers. I actually miss him.

What color hats for the men and what color for the women?

Use the same color for both that way it's equal but just write the gender on them. Maybe in chalk in case someone changes their mind partway throughout the day. 😜

"Boys will be boys and girls will be girls it's a mixed up, muddled up, shook up world except for Lola, la la la la Lola."

These posts remind me of this song by the Kinks...

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