I think I'm having a hard time balancing my personal & school life.
I'm trying really hard in school (ADN program) to do well & get my RN license. I've gotten A's in all my classes & doing well in clinical w/ patients/care plans. I put a lot of effort into school because I want to be a good nurse.
My boyfriend is proud of me but he complains that I don't "keep up the house". We live together & have been together for a really long time. He works full-time, I don't. I do all the laundry & try to maintain the cleaning & cooking but I just can't seem to do it as much as he'd like. He says that I'm not "consistent".
To me.....I can't be!!! I have an exam every 2 weeks & care plans every week. Nursing school is stressful, & although I don't technically work full-time, I'm working my butt off in school!!! He doesn't get it. He thinks that because he works full-time & I don't.....I should be able to keep the dishes clean, cook more than I do, keep the house generally clean, etc.
I honestly try hard to do these things but my priority is school. If I have an exam coming up & a pile of dishes.........I study & then do dishes either if I have time between studying or after my exam (I won't wait too long when things get nasty but you know what I mean).
We've had this fight over & over again but we just can't see each other's sides. He just can't possibly get how busy & stressful nursing school is.....even though he sees me studying ALL the time.
How does everyone else manage??