ever seen this? false accusations about your mental health?

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ACCCCKKKK!

I thought i was smart enough to know all management tricks--( been a nurse 32 years).

Nope. The disorganization i work for quickly placed a mandatory 24 hour work week to qualify for benefits. LOSE YOUR VACATION ! ( mismanagement could not answer a question as to tax % it would be given to you when cashing out, LOSE your entire 400 hour sick bank that you have not taken/needed to use for 11 years).

Sadly I countered mismanagement's comment that OTHER local hospitals did this a year ago by saying " although that sounds logical and reasonable, if your neighbor jumped off a bridge, WOULD YOU JOIN IN? "........

I quickly changed employment status from 16 hours a week to 24. in 2 shifts ...because who really wants to spend their life at work? NOPE. dedicated YES. STUPID-NO!!!!

Fast forward 3 months--- out of no where, i find myself forced to a psych eval for " mania"---by a social worker in EAP--------

not for one second will i see my employers MD's- i SMELL

soooo....waiting 6 weeks to see the MD of my choice has run my ETO ( vacation) down to 9 hours and because FMLA papers need to be submitted before they will use my ESB ( earned sick bank to the tune of 420 hours).

My GUT feeling---oh can i see the handwriting on the wall that since i have such a stellar employment history , i cannot be fired---so they will do the GAS LIGHTING feature so commonly known and seen by management ( if you fall for it! and become their prey!!!)

How do you pry gently as to what the agenda could possibly be , and to WHOM ( as human resources has become nothing but litigation and union look out behavioral services paid by CORPORATE piranhas ) do you inform that management is BULLYING, GAS LIGHTING, LYING VIA DISTORTION, AND PROJECTION ?

WHO do you go and speak to about your manager being a psychopath, and a bad one at that---- ( no one cares anymore except for themselves)

Sadly, i am seasoned, wise as serpent yet gentle as dove--- know how to flip tables like Jesus and yet do not condemn the prostitute or social pariah ( there is no such a person--EVER!!)

My gut also says i am glass ceiling-ed out( max wages for my locale). they hate my skill and daisy wards and knowledge and personal acumen and stellar reviews for entire length of employment there ( pretty easy to do working 2 8 hour shifts a week)

............

the writing on the wall tells me they are setting me up to gracefully exit or transfer to another department..........

ANY ADVICE-- IDEAS-- PREVIOUS EXPERIENCE with said issues.........

what i want-- to leave on my own terms in my own time frame and SHAME ON THEM!

fact is, i may just be a catalyst after i exit on my own terms ( i am , terminally honest when NOT being employed by them)

Specializes in Psych.

OP, a situation like this would be frustrating to any of us.

however the way your post is written: apparent pressured speech, tangential, possibly paranoid, partially demonstrating delusions of grandeur.

You might want to consider that you are in fact in a manic state and seeking help is the best option.

it can happen to all of us, and has happened to many already.

There's no shame in seeking help. I'd rather have someone tell me that I'm not stable, rather than pretend that I'm ok and let me get worse.

Just all around for everyone's safety, yours and your patients, a check up is worth it.

I hope things get better soon :)

Specializes in PICU, Sedation/Radiology, PACU.

Manic or not, consulting an attorney that specialized in employment law will help you secure the benefits and protections to which you are legally entitled, and provides a backing of support if you find yourself in a situation where you feel you are being unfairly targeted. Best of luck.

Specializes in Pediatric Critical Care.
I'm so sorry, but looking back at former posts of yours and then comparing it to your OP, you do sound manic (and this is coming from someone who is indeed bipolar). The disjointed text, the flow ... you don't "sound" like yourself in former posts (which are comprehensible). This is worrisome.

Obviously I don't know you from Eve, but please be careful here and listen to vanilla bean's response because it's good advice.

Good luck.

I agree. Looking back at your old posts, I noticed that this one sounds different, just like Pixierose did. I hope you know that those of us saying those things are telling you out of concern for your best interest. Sometimes when one is manic, they aren't able to see their own symptoms clearly. In fact, that in itself is actually a symptom.

I hope that you are able to see your own MD soon, if that is who you are set on seeing. If you are having signs of mania, as this post sounds like, it is something that is best faced with help. Good luck, I hope you will come back and keep us updated.

Specializes in Psychiatric, Aesthetics.

You guys need to stop diagnosing based on prior posts. She's upset with warrant. Nurses are to asses, not diagnose. Assess that she's upset- this is serious and other posts may not be applicable here. Period. If she hadn't have said she's been accused of being "manic", would any of you have gone back to her previous posts to confirm a diagnosis?

Yes, calm down. Yes, you may have an issue...maybe not. But everyone needs to remember not to diagnose here. Not kidding- I know what I'm talking about here. She's asking for help.

Specializes in Pediatric Critical Care.
You guys need to stop diagnosing based on prior posts. She's upset with warrant. Nurses are to asses, not diagnose. Assess that she's upset- this is serious and other posts may not be applicable here. Period. If she hadn't have said she's been accused of being "manic", would any of you have gone back to her previous posts to confirm a diagnosis?

Yes, calm down. Yes, you may have an issue...maybe not. But everyone needs to remember not to diagnose here. Not kidding- I know what I'm talking about here. She's asking for help.

Yes, I think I would have said that her post seemed highly agitated even if she hadn't used the word manic. But you are correct, I probably should have chosen the word "agitated" instead. Agitated would have been a better choice.

Regardless, I remain concerned about OP and hope that she is able to meet with a doctor soon just in case anything needs to be addressed to cause this agitation other than what OP has said in this post. Something seems not-quite-right.

(not kidding - many of us know a bit about what we are talking about here as well)

Specializes in Family Nurse Practitioner.

I was waiting for someone to come on here who either works with psych patients or has a psych issue themselves to come on here and get after all the posters who used the word manic to describe the OPs post. :-P

Specializes in Family Practice, Mental Health.

? Maybe a little hyperthyroid ?

Perhaps you should call your MD to be seen a little more urgently.

Specializes in ED, psych.
You guys need to stop diagnosing based on prior posts. She's upset with warrant. Nurses are to asses, not diagnose. Assess that she's upset- this is serious and other posts may not be applicable here. Period. If she hadn't have said she's been accused of being "manic", would any of you have gone back to her previous posts to confirm a diagnosis?

Yes, calm down. Yes, you may have an issue...maybe not. But everyone needs to remember not to diagnose here. Not kidding- I know what I'm talking about here. She's asking for help.

Actually, YES. I would have gone back to look at her other posts.

Having been in a state of mania myself in the past, I would sound very much like this. The disjointed speech, the flow, the grandeur.

Yes, she is asking for help. And help is sometimes receiving responses you may not want to hear. Her place of employment thinks she may be manic. From her post, I unfortunately agree. And mania can be very dangerous.

But again, like I said, I don't know her from Eve. The OP needs to take a calm and cool approach to the situation. I also think she's doing the right thing by seeking help, and not by her place of employments' medical physician.

Specializes in Medsurg/ICU, Mental Health, Home Health.

OP - can you explain to us a little about what happened? You increased your hours because of need for benefits...yadda yadda...you're manic per your manager? What's in the yadda yadda?

Specializes in Urology.

Why the heck is this in the PACU forums? Can we get this moved?!

Specializes in Mental Health, Gerontology, Palliative.

Coming from a situation of work place bullying, game playing and manipulation, this stuff really does make a person feel manic and crazy. 2 weeks ago I probably sounded much like the OP

OP make sure you take care of yourself in all this and remember no job is worth your sanity.

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