Ever know someone who has a major crush on a doctor?
Then you have to be extra nice to all the doctors so it's not so obvious that your so nice to your crush doctor. Then your co-workers name 6 other doctors that they think you have a crush on!
Someone else was supposed to be on call one day, I was in a hurry, didn't do a thing with my hair or makeup, then I saw him! (Yikes) So now I watch carefully what I wear, and make up and hair everyday. I've also lost weight. And since both he and I are married, it kinda works for my husband. My husband likes that I do my hair and make up, lost weight, etc. Then I come home and I'm lovey dovey with my husband.
Both my crush doctor and I are both married with kids at home. I would never cheat - you can never take that back. I would never be able to break up 2 families. If my crush doctor ever attempted to cheat on his wife with me, it would kill that whole crush and I would be disgusted with him. (Which I'm sure he'd never do - which adds to his wonderfulness *sigh*)
I read an article about 6 years ago regarding women and their OB docs. There is a high percentage of "crush things" going on in that relationship.
I did have a little crush on one of my OB docs when I was preggers with my second son.
steph
My husband used to tease me that I always wanted to get pregnant so I could go see my OB. He is only a couple of years older than I am, and he is terribly goodlooking! It really wigged me out at first, but I worked postpartum at the hospital, so as time went on, he just kind of became a big brother type.
I never had a crush on a doctor, just ones that I enjoyed working with for various reasons. Hubby says once in awhile, teasingly, "I know, you want to find one of those doctors!" Now I have a little secret to divulge.....I don't even LIKE doctors! SHHHHH...don't tell anyone.
Sorry, give me non-medical sweetheart any day of the week. :kiss
Stitchie - it was 19 years ago when I was preggers with my 2nd son . . . . I was not a nurse. . .. . it was just a little crush . . . .and remember, there was an article saying it is pretty common for women to get crushes on their OB doc.
Stitchie - it was 19 years ago when I was preggers with my 2nd son . . . . I was not a nurse. . .. . it was just a little crush . . . .and remember, there was an article saying it is pretty common for women to get crushes on their OB doc.
I'm a nurse now . . I know better. :chuckle
steph
Steph -- nothing personal :chuckle
Most of the docs I know are, shall we say, not sweetheart material.
You could always say the preggers hormones got to you. :rotfl:
Most of the docs I know are, shall we say, not sweetheart material.
You could always say the preggers hormones got to you. :rotfl:
Oh gosh, I know nothing personal . . I've been laughing. I think the article did say hormones had something to do with it plus it being such an emotion-filled time for moms.
This post got my attention. I do have a huge crush on one of our docs mainly because he's got a cute smile and calls me " the super nurse". He makes me smile whenever I see him. It makes the work a little easier and gives me a little distraction from an otherwise depressing and challenging shift in the ...critical care
camay1221_RN
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My husband used to tease me that I always wanted to get pregnant so I could go see my OB. He is only a couple of years older than I am, and he is terribly goodlooking! It really wigged me out at first, but I worked postpartum at the hospital, so as time went on, he just kind of became a big brother type.