I have a patient who's dying of colon cancer. Social Services has spoke with the family and she's basically comfort care now. However one of her sons does NOT seem to get it. EVERY night he comes in and tries to force EVERY bite of food down here. He seriously sounds like he's coaching a whole football team, yelling, "Come on, Open UP, C'Mon, Let's Go!" I can't take it!
This is the first night I've heard him do it, but I've been told it's this way EVERY night. I'm not sure if it's just that he doesn't understand what's going on or if he thinks feeding her is gonna help miraculously cure her. I CAN NOT take it anymore though. She's sick, dying, and DOES NOT want to eat. I'm not sure what else to do other than just have Social Services and the Doctor try to explain things to him a little more tomorrow b/c he's obviously not getting something here. I'm not sure how to approach him about myself without causing a major blow up. She was previously in a bigger hospital and he himself told me he pretty much raised hell with them there about everything. It's to the point that I feel like he's abusing her in a way by forcing her to eat.