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I had a patient last night who was well over 80. She was a DNR. Her husband, also well over 80, was spending the night. I went into the room to hang an IV med and there he was. And he looked dead. I stood watching him for like a solid 30 seconds, and he didn't appear to be breathing. When I went closed to him it became apparent that he was breathing. But he seriously looked dead for a second there, lying perfectly still, gray, and with a solidly positive "o sign."
Obviously I was glad he wasn't dead, but it got me thinking- what if he had been?