I have a huge problem. It is a long story so if you need more details I can provide but I'm going to shorten this here.
As of 1 week ago I was dismissed from school due to failing three classes which is their limit. The first two classes I failed was in September 2014, the third March 2015. The school checks everyone's grades after each session. Each session is 8 weeks long. I have since re-taken those classes and passed them as well as 3 other classes. I do not deny that I should have been dismissed but six months later after I've re-taken them as well as further classes? I have been receiving financial aid during this time as well. I don't know if this is right or if I should pursue a second appeal at the national level. Do I file a formal complaint. Do I have any rights here?
I hope someone can provide some sort of insight here.
I believe that the school was absolutely wrong in how they handled the situation. Yes, you should have failed out of nursing school for failing 3 classes, but they should NOT have allowed you to continue taking classes. It is the school's responsibility to notify students when they are failing. Even if people here think that you should have been more on top of the situation (which yes, honestly you could have been more on top of things), the fact still remains that someone at the office did not do their job, and it hurt you financially. That's like getting approved for a credit card, spending money, then having the credit card company take away all the money they gave you, plus the items you purchased with that money, all the while still making you pay interest. It's wrong.
I'm not aware of any "statute of limitations" on flunking out of school. I agree that the school could have handled this better, but the fact that they took longer to notice than we all might have liked doesn't change the fact that you failed too many classes, and doesn't mean you get a free pass and they now have to let you stay and finish the program. I agree that it's your responsibility as much as the school's that you continued to enroll in and pay for classes (and, honestly, how can you possibly not have realized that you failed too many courses???) You tried to "fly under the radar" and get away with this, you were successful for a while, but now it's caught up with you. It is what it is. I'm not seeing any grounds for an exception being made in your case.
Again, you took one sentence and chose to be hurt by it, instead of seeing that ultimately I WAS trying to give you support and encouragement.
So be it. As long as this is how you react you will always feel that everyone is against you, and your responses will be those of a child, not an adult.
I sincerely wish you luck in whatever direction your endeavors take you.
You may assume what you want about me and how I act but you have no idea. There are no correct words to say without them being taken the way the reader takes them. I have taken responsibility for my actions. Flying under the radar was not the best thing. I do not make excuse for knowing or not knowing I had failed.
Yes you did try to be positive but it was a little too late. I READ every word of what you wrote and I even re-read every word everyone wrote. I chose to say what I said from everyone's posts not just yours.
I am a good person no matter what you want to believe. I am not making excuses for how my situation is. I own up to my wrong doings. I am paying the price. I messed up. I know it.
Thank you for your words, kind or not, they have all helped me in one way or another.
I also have to question the school's integrity here. Has anyone considered why the school accepted Financial Aid monies from a student who was ultimately going to be dropped from the program? Was this a State or Private Institution? Failing courses will place you on Financial Aid probation and requires extensive counseling before you are allowed to take further courses. You just can't "choose to register and pay for more classes hoping no one would ever know," at many programs. The OP bears much of the responsibility, no doubt. But this school should not have been able or should not have taken any further financial aid monies at this level. The school AND the OP should have had extensive interactive counseling.
27 years as a Nurse, I have failed many things. Please people, everyone here has made many mistakes in their lives. We are HUMAN. Do you know how many "holier than thou" attitudes I have come up against in my career? You have ALL made mistakes AND have tried to cover them also. I have seen it in action. It's human nature to make excuses for your guilty conscious. However, there is a time to admit and confess. The OP is doing so right now. Stop crucifying her and lets encourage her to become a better person (maybe nurse) for it.
27 years as a Nurse, I have failed many things. Please people, everyone here has made many mistakes in their lives. We are HUMAN. Do you know how many "holier than thou" attitudes I have come up against in my career? You have ALL made mistakes AND have tried to cover them also. I have seen it in action. It's human nature to make excuses for your guilty conscious. However, there is a time to admit and confess. The OP is doing so right now. Stop crucifying her and lets encourage her to become a better person (maybe nurse) for it.
That is quite a bold statement, considering that you don't know any of us ...
That is quite a bold statement, considering that you don't know any of us ...
Agreed.
Explorereb: Believe it or not, there are many people who actually own up to their mistakes and work to fix said mistakes, then make a plan to ensure those mistakes don't happen again.
springchick1, ADN, RN
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