I am a fourth semester nursing student and last semester I experienced my first code (she actually coded three times). I felt like I had mulitple personality disorder after it. Part of me was really excited because I had never been involved in a code blue before and I had never seen CPR performed on a person. It was a learning experience and I took advantage of it. The other part of me was horrified at what I had seen. This patient was young and her children who were my age were in the waiting room. I managed to keep that side of me at bay until I got off from clinical and went home and started to process the whole thing and then I burst into tears.
So, my question; Am I supposed to have a "nursing" mode and a "normal human" mode? Or am I supposed to find a happy medium between the two? It almost felt like a defense mechanism so I could function through the situation.
I am planning on being a NICU or peds nurse, and sometimes I worry about how I will handle it when my patients don't make it.
Any advise or comments would be appreciated :)