Hello, my name is Melanie and I am 19, y/o with a 8-month old daughter. I come from a very traditional Filipino family that is full of nurses. I am struggling with choosing my career path. My passion is to get a bachelors degree in Business and become an entrepreneur someday, to hopefully own own restaurant. On the other hand, my family wants me to be a nurse because of the stability and sufficient income, etc. I want to become a nurse to make my family proud of me, as well as support my daughter with everything she needs and wants. I know nursing is in high demand. I all of my prerequisites done for the ADN program except A&P part II and Microbiology. I actually withdrew from my A&P 2 class this semester due to my failing grade. I plan on retaking it next semester along with microbiology. My question is, if I have both A&P 2 and microbiology classes in the same semester, would that be too much for me since I struggled a lot with A&P in the past? Also, nursing is not my passion, but I want to become a nurse so my family is happy and to support my daughter financially well. I need more motivation, it seems. It has been an overwhelming past year for me. I graduated high school class of 2011. At the end of my summer before college started, I found out I was pregnant. 9 months later on St. Patricks Day, I gave birth to a beautiful baby girl. 3 months after she was born, I moved out of my mom's house and got an apartment with my boyfriend. Now I am here. We struggle at times with money, as he is the only one working and I am just a student. I am lost. Do I chase my dream of majoring in business now? Then I would be in school for 4 more years, as I have only been doing my prereqs for nursing. Or should I get my ADN, which will take 2 yrs, although I don't feel passionate about it as I do for business? I know business is more risky than nursing, due to the economic downfall and whatnot. Please help a teen mom out! Thanks y'all! I truly appreciate it!!! :)
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Hello, my name is Melanie and I am 19, y/o with a 8-month old daughter. I come from a very traditional Filipino family that is full of nurses. I am struggling with choosing my career path. My passion is to get a bachelors degree in Business and become an entrepreneur someday, to hopefully own own restaurant. On the other hand, my family wants me to be a nurse because of the stability and sufficient income, etc. I want to become a nurse to make my family proud of me, as well as support my daughter with everything she needs and wants. I know nursing is in high demand. I all of my prerequisites done for the ADN program except A&P part II and Microbiology. I actually withdrew from my A&P 2 class this semester due to my failing grade. I plan on retaking it next semester along with microbiology. My question is, if I have both A&P 2 and microbiology classes in the same semester, would that be too much for me since I struggled a lot with A&P in the past? Also, nursing is not my passion, but I want to become a nurse so my family is happy and to support my daughter financially well. I need more motivation, it seems. It has been an overwhelming past year for me. I graduated high school class of 2011. At the end of my summer before college started, I found out I was pregnant. 9 months later on St. Patricks Day, I gave birth to a beautiful baby girl. 3 months after she was born, I moved out of my mom's house and got an apartment with my boyfriend. Now I am here. We struggle at times with money, as he is the only one working and I am just a student. I am lost. Do I chase my dream of majoring in business now? Then I would be in school for 4 more years, as I have only been doing my prereqs for nursing. Or should I get my ADN, which will take 2 yrs, although I don't feel passionate about it as I do for business? I know business is more risky than nursing, due to the economic downfall and whatnot. Please help a teen mom out! Thanks y'all! I truly appreciate it!!! :)