The reasons I'm going to continue to bust my ass in nursing school and put up the best effort I possibly can is because I owe it to myself. Half ass'ing a job, life, or whatever you are working toward is all on your shoulders. The hard work is evident to others, it's a display to the world what you represent as an individual. I get some satisfaction from impressing professors, maybe from some deep seeded trait engrained into me from a constant desire to impress my father. My father is a man with little ability to moderate his work, play, or relaxation. He's all go, 100% pedal to the metal, over-achieving type of guy. I've consistently heard from his co-workers that he is cut from a different mold, a mold infused with molecules that vibrate a little faster than all the rest. Unfortunately, I retain some of this inability to moderate my life. Last semester I maintained a 4.0, impressed the **** out of my clinical instructors, and succeeded in all regards academically. However, I have a girlfriend that was neglected, got somewhat chubby from sedentary hours spent reading and cramming knowledge in a tired mind, and ignored my "friends." Nursing school... it's the anti-life, socially anyway. I'm a more solitary individual anyhow, but do thrive and deeply appreciate the friends I have made over the years. In a human interaction I'm one to appreciate quality over quantity. Most people I find a reason to shy away from, (i.e., politically insane, religious fanatic, or treat their body/mind to a standard I disagree with). While nursing is a giving profession, at times nursing school feels like a selfish endeavor. I'm driven to the point where I put everything behind my success, so friends, family, and life... I'll hopefully see you in May. For now, I'll continue on the warpath of academia and self-mutilation as I push my limits of performance to exceed the expectations of others while just barely scratching the surface of mine.
First, where's the "thousands"?? This posts is a few pages long, so I don't see the "thousands".
Next, I only see words, not tone; if anything, the rest of this responses are major confusion due to the pattern of the OP's post; still words to me-no negativity. *shrugs*
I still get amazed after being on message board for almost 15 years and the posters who "hears" what people are "saying".
I LONG for that talent.
You can feel free to post "way to go!", the others are feeling free to post whatever they choose...why worry about others, the OP is doing, so far, fine.
Thousands on this site not this one message duh. When someone types “hear" on a message board lets use our reasoning to understand that the phrase is not for literal interpretation.
Furthermore my point is this people love to hate on others because he or she can't mAintain a 4.0. Crabs in a bucket mentality.
Actually, we DO know that maintaining a 4.0 during nursing school doesn't mean he's going to be a good nurse. But it also doesn't mean he WON'T be a good nurse.
He didn't have an attitude. He's just venting as we are allowed to.
Seems like he's trying to impress his father. He got a 4.0 which is great. He never bragged and said anything about being a good nurse if/when he graduates. But of course, someone had to mentions that to him so that he doesn't forget. (Someone always does come in after a few posts). Then the people asking "do you have a question?" Um no. He's just venting.
I recall someone being snarky saying something along the lines of 'tell us how amazing you are again?' Because god forbid you make good grades and want to talk about it.
And then the grammar police come. They always do. Let's not forget about them!
Then. When someone like you comes along and goes against the masses they all get clueless? "Me? Who said that?" "I didnt see that posted! All I see is.." I can just Imagine them smiling behind their computer screen. They know what they are doing but play dumb. Happens all the time. Just read and scroll my friend, read and scroll. Not worth it. Lol
He didn't have an attitude. He's just venting as we are allowed to. Seems like he's trying to impress his father. He got a 4.0 which is great. He never bragged and said anything about being a good nurse if/when he graduates. But of course someone had to mentions that to him so that he doesn't forget. (Someone always does come in after a few posts). Then the people asking "do you have a question?" Um no. He's just venting. I recall someone being snarky saying something along the lines of 'tell us how amazing you are again?' Because god forbid you make good grades and want to talk about it. And then the grammar police come. They always do. Let's not forget about them! Then. When someone like you comes along and goes against the masses they all get clueless? "Me? Who said that?" "I didnt see that posted! All I see is.." I can just Imagine them smiling behind their computer screen. They know what they are doing but play dumb. Happens all the time. Just read and scroll my friend, read and scroll. Not worth it. Lol[/quote']
....and now back to the thread
For the "clueless" individual who sees words, because, that read posts NEVER personally and don't read them with a chip. I can only speak for myself, and any issue, related to me allegedly "playing dumb" PLEASE don't hesitate to PM me, thanks!
....and now back to the thread For the "clueless" individual who sees words because, that read posts NEVER personally and don't read them with a chip. I can only speak for myself, and any issue, related to me allegedly "playing dumb" PLEASE don't hesitate to PM me, thanks! Since it's such an issue.... [/quote'] A hit dog will holler. Neve mentioned you or quoted you playing dumb. I'm not afraid of fonts. If I wanted to quote you or pm you I would have. :) have a nice Tuesday!!!!!
A hit dog will holler. Neve mentioned you or quoted you playing dumb. I'm not afraid of fonts. If I wanted to quote you or pm you I would have. :) have a nice Tuesday!!!!!
Yes...I'm having a FABULOUS time, just make sure you are doing well, and not worrying over other people's opinion enough to be passive aggressive; really NOT that serious...just my two cents.
Yes...I'm having a FABULOUS time just make sure you are doing well, and not worrying over other people's opinion enough to be passive aggressive; really NOT that serious...just my two cents. Anywho. I'm GREAT! Thanks for asking!!! [/quote'] Glad to hear it!! :) my day is going fabulous as well! Looking forward to the rain that's about to fall. Nice and cozy day!
Lmao The cattiness that threads turn into is hilarious.
What's MORE funny is the people who take it there instead of posting their piece or scrolling by what people say; or asking for clarification-they want to bemoan others; however, so be it.
Surprise, another narcissistic nursing student, like their weren't enough in my class alone. I will continue busting my hump to get through until May, too. I sure as heck do not care what my nursing instructors or anyone else in the world thinks about me. If I am ever hospitalized I hope your attitude is well-hidden from plain site or I will be requesting someone a little more down to earth. Wondering why you didn't go to med school?
Oh and another thing is this-seeking approval from the outside in is probably related to unconscious anger at your father. You will make yourself crazy seeking all the approval of authorities and will never be satisfied. Overachieving is one thing, working so hard to impress people is another, someday it will all catch up with you especially since in the end the only real thing that matters in life is relationships and how we treat other people.
Kudos on the good grades. No, I am not jealous. I get along just fine, family and all.
Thanks for asking!!! 
Marsha238612
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The title of this post reads "Selfish Nurse" but wait you're not a nurse yet, you're a nursing student.
Anyhow good for you on being so studious, but it takes soooo much more than that to be a well-rounded individual.
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