Just had a teacher pop her head in to let me know that a student that she has sent down to me for stomach aches several times (that i have sent back to class usually after a short assessment and have also seen for many many c/o nausea, stomach aches) was hospitalized last week for an attempted suicide. Her tone came off as accusatory and almost gloating that thought i had been dismissive of this student. In reality, I had called and spoken with this student's family twice already this year about frequent visits and possible stressors. And I had sent this student home for stomach aches and vomiting just a week or so earlier.
Mind you, this is my first year in this district, the last nurse was here 25+ years and knew everything about everyone. The staff has been having a bit of a hard time adjusting to me and seem to forget that i've been a school nurse for over 10 years now.
I know that school is a rough time for kids. I know that students get a lot of non descript symptoms when they are feeling stressed and they may not even recognize that they are even under stress. And I try to do everything in my power to be supportive and positive for the students. But the staff needs to realize that #1 - we are school nurses, not miracle workers (over worked, tired...often working through lunch - ask a teacher to skip their lunch or prep and see how the fur flies). #2 we can't send home a kid each and every time his/her tummy hurts - especially if there is no vomiting involved. Maybe a little rest, but some of these kids would choose to rest here all day if they could. We have to pick and choose our interventions for what is appropriate for what we assess at that event #3 I am not trying to be mean, and i certainly don't want to see a child hurt themself or worse - i just want to see these kids succeed and learn how to work through their problems.
ok, rant over....