I would definitely recommend relocating to Baltimore, MD and attending University of Maryland in Baltimore. Baltimore is very friendly towards GLBT community (here is a website for GLBT in Baltimore: The GLCCB (GLBT Community Center of Baltimore and Central Maryland)
). University of Maryland in Baltimore has a graduate program for those who have a bachelor's degree in another field, so you would end up with a higher nursing degree than an accelerated BSN. The MSN program is Clinical Nurse Leader and UMB is an excellent school. Hope this is helpful.