This goes out to all the students who are pursuing a Bachelor's degree in nursing. Believe people when they say: IT IS GOING TO BE TOUGH. Because it will be. Now I know there are different perspectives but before I had entered the nursing program I was a 3.9 GPA student who had even worked two part time jobs before beginning. I thought with all of that under my belt, how bad could it be. Whoa, was I wrong. Nursing school literally knocked me on my knees the first semester. I had about two mental breakdowns. When I started nursing school I was working 15 hours a week as a cashier, so no time to study and went to school Wednesday, Thursday, and Friday for about the whole day. That left me with about 2 whole days to study and if I was lucky with scheduling that week 2 half days to study. Please believe everyone when they say nursing school is tough! Because it is. Do not think for a second you will take a free ride. Now that I have warned you about the toughness of it, I will make recommendations. Mentality prepare yourself for the course you about to embark on. Nursing school will give you massive amount of information to understand in a short amount of time. Specific to my program, we mainly self -taught ourselves due to class time constraints and whatnot. Before the program I suggest you write yourself a letter to your future self and remind yourself why you wanted to be a nurse. So many people in my program are reconsidering their choice of this profession due the stress. Maybe they are not cut out for it or may be the stress of being a nursing student is so much you may start to think you are incompetent and that you should not be a nurse. Whatever it may be, hopefully this letter will keep you grounded and remind you why you even wanted to do it in the first place. I was dabbling on the line for a while there. YOU HAVE TO WANT IT. Suffer through this now and enjoy it later. Nothing easy in life comes free. I remember writing those essays about why I chose nursing to get into programs and to me they were just letters on a paper to impress the program. You will understand what it means to be a patient's advocate and provide effective care. Now I know I have a long way to go but I can at least say I have an understanding on those words. In the program, become responsible for yourself! Do not rely on your fellow classmates to pull you through the program. Create your own study habits but if a study group works for then, hey, do it. Stop all of the negative thoughts before they happen. DO NOT think that the professors are out to get you. People have gone through the program before so then if you create right habits, why shouldn't you. Nursing school is meant to shake you up because being a nurse is not easy. Let's face it. There is no black and white when it comes to nursing and once you step onto a hospital floor with the RN next to your name a lot of responsibility comes with it. I am saying all of this from my own experience. Once you start nursing school it may be common to only hear the negative. A bunch of people will start talking about how nursing is such a terrible profession. How nurses eat their young and blah blah. I see it this way, as true as that may be everything in life is subjective to the person. Develop coping strategies now! Learn to not take things personally and not everything is about you. I know every situation is different and I have a lot to learn still considering I am only in my second semester of the program but these type of thoughts are helping me regain confidence and are helping me want to be a nurse again with no doubt. Nursing is not always going to be heroic. Patients will question your motives for the very simplest things. Like, "Does the doctor know I need insulin since my sugar is high"? (which in a standard patient with high glucose you would administer insulin as a nurse as protocol) You have to keep in mind the whole do not take anything personally and focus on the patient's needs and maybe even do some patient education. Nursing to me is those moments when you actually do hear your patient say thank you or even if they don't it's when they walk away healthier from when they were administered into the hospital. Nursing to me is when you talk to patients with chronic illnesses that are filled with positivity and have such a high outlook on life. I have had so many patients' tell me their stories in which some made me cried and made me realize how lucky I am. I have no right to complain or at least definitely nowhere near as much as patients do. Anywho, again this is all my perspective. I wish to not hear any criticism and really just wanted to give some unsugar coated advice I wish I had heard before starting. Tell me your thoughts fellow nursing students and nurses.