Insane visitors!

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I'm a graduate nurse (took my NCLEX last week) and I work on a postpartum floor in a rural hospital, and for the most part, I love it. I'm just a little baffled by some of the visitors we get -- we get them at all times of the day and night, regardless of when the delivery was. Visiting hours end at 9pm and people seem to think that they can just come waltzing in b/c the mom delivered after 9pm. It's like HELLO? This woman's been in labor all day, has been through a delivery and it's now BEDTIME!! I've had patients that have had probably 10 people in our little private rooms less than 5 minutes after we get them into the bed on the postpartum unit. :rolleyes: And then, while you're doing frequent vital signs and have to check the patient's fundus, lochia, etc., the people in the room make a big deal of us asking them to step out! What's the deal? I realize this is a big thing, new member of the family and all that, but good grief! Provided there are no complications, mother and baby will be home the following day - does everybody and their dog really need to come visit in the hospital?

Anybody else feel this way? Thanks for letting me vent...

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Originally posted by SmilingBluEyes

By the way, ADN2002, CONGRATS on PASSING THE BOARDS!!! WELCOME TO THE GREATEST AREA OF NURSING THERE IS, IN MY OPINION!!!!! WAY TO GO!!!:biggringi :nurse: :balloons: :blushkiss

Thanks Debbie! I'm really excited to be working in OB!

About the kid with roseola...I'd love to let this one charge nurse we have get ahold of the lady that was with that kid -- she'd probably jump on her...literally! Too bad we can't implement the blowgun idea...

birth- the 2nd favorite spectator sport next to nascar in these parts, thankyou very much!

Specializes in Specializes in L/D, newborn, GYN, LTC, Dialysis.

so well-said imenid. you are truly wise and funny!

Some of this %@*# CAN be blamed on the TV shows. Although I do enjoy some of them from time to time, they make the whole process look fast and friendly. All wrapped up in a 30 min show. The nurse is just a bystander and not "in charge" and does not appear to do anything resembling WORK! Also, we have lost our respect if ya ask me, from the public. Pts are now "customers", remember, and the customer is ALWAYS right! Right? Just a thought.

Specializes in Adult internal med, OB/GYN, REI..

yes yes...iknow this to be true.....in fact ewhen i was working postpartum a a student extern blah blah i had a patient who wasn;t married to the dad, they were younger, she was nervous,....he invited all his manly mens to be there and guffaw loudly with unlit cigars dangling, as well as a relative, his aunt i believe. I asked the mom if all the activity was kosher with her, she said that she didn';t know hwo to get them out, and I said " well we can initiate breastfeeding and I will escort them out for some privacy so we can work on it"....so all agreed but the aunt, who, commented when I said that the baby should remain wrapped snugly for the first 24 hours, even when feeding, but should not be so warm that they sweat...etc, said " well babies can't get overheated, you know...they've been in the womb which is a very warm environment, and all thatthey are used to".

I didnt' argue, but said that babies have limitd thermoregu;ation, etc,...and she was all grumpy when i shoo'ed her out...

crazy thing is....when i went to my peds clinical that next day, lo and behold....there she was....teh pediatrician for my 7 yr old newly diagnosed diabetic.

oh those crazy crazy visitors.....

you just got to love visitors, i went to do vag exam on my laboring patient had several of the s/o friends in room i ask them to step out. they told me" its ok WE don't mind" i promptly put them out any way. the nerve and ignorance of some people!

question: what is america's number one spectator sport?

answer: child birth!

Well, I had my first set of visitors the other day that didn't know the name of the patient they were there to see. I came around the corner and there were these three people going from door to door reading the names and I'm like can I help you?? And they tell me they're here to see a new mom and that they don't know her last name but they know she was induced this morning and that she's there somewhere. They gave me her first name and I was like well we don't have anybody by that name here and these people just insisted that she was there somewhere! After I told them a few more times that she WAS NOT THERE, they finally gave up and went home.

Jeez! If you're not close enough to somebody to know their last name, you're not close enough to them to be visiting them in the hospital postpartum!! :rolleyes:

OMG, ADN2002.......what a bunch of morons. People like that just chaffe me in all the wrong places.........:rolleyes:

Specializes in ER, ICU, L&D, OR.

Howdy yall

from deep in the heat of texas

Mark_LD RN you said spectator sport. yuck/ If my wife hadnt forced me into going thru all 7 of her labors with her. I would have much rather been out on the golf course myself.

This stuff about bonding between the father and the newborn is highly over rated. I work the ER, even though years ago when I worked L and D... I thought watching these husbands sweat was funny.. How ever for me. I will play golf for the next one.

Here at this hosp. after hours they all enter through the ER, and I laugh when the husb screams for a w/c, and its not for his wife, but all his video equip. Where do these weirdos come from..

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yeah TOm I dont know where they come from myself. i really dont get someone want 20 people in the room for birth. I get a lot of women letting their dads and grand parents in the room. last weeek I had a girls dad holding one leg up and her grampa holding the other while she pushed, the whole time her S/O was filming and taking pictures from the bottom end:) while i was helping her make room and checking her, talk about awkward and strange. also had a birth last night they filmmed whole thing could hardly walk in room with all the people and cameras on tripods for the filming of the big event. they even filmed the doc using forceps

Specializes in ER.

Oh Mark how do you pt care in an emergency with all the people and cords to dodge? That is exactly the situation I can't stand for. I need to be able to concentrate on the patient. Plus with so many people there is sure to be someone who wants to make a "reality" documantary and ask questions as you are bagging the baby, wants to find out what every possible complication could be as you draw up the methergine, an anatomical explanation for the uterine massage, and my favorite, graphic description of blood clots/flow of a ppbleed. ugh

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