How to NOT interview for your RN/LPN job!

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I just got finished with round 3 of the most frustrating interviews! I was an LPN for 15 years before I went back to school for my RN. I am currently in training for management so I have been "forced" to endure the interview process. I would hope that a nurse that was interviewing for our position would read this, but if not, I have no problem trying to help other LPN's be better or RN's suffer less.

What NOT to do:

Do NOT show up late unless you have called and told me why...and it better be good. All I can think is how many times will this happen when they are employed.

Do NOT show up looking like a hooker. If you wear a skirt, wear one that is longer than knee length and make sure you can walk in it. I am not interested in how sexy you can look. If you wear pants, make sure they are dress pants...I don't want to see your khaki's from 9th grade. If any of your clothes are tight...leave them at home. I remember one nurse who's clothes were too tight and I felt like I was watching her slowly suffocate during the interview. Also NO jeans....EVER...period!!! I had several nurses who wore scrubs and that was so much better than ill fitting, crazy looking outfits. However they were coming to or going to their regular job. If someone who was unemployed showed up in scrubs it would seem a little strange.

Do NOT come with hair that is not a natural color and piercings anywhere but your ears. It doesn't bother me, but my patients will call and say I want to talk to the nurse but not the one with blue hair, and nose rings...she looks freaky and made my baby cry. Plus if I hire you, you will have a dress code that will say no piercings, or unnatural hair color...might as well start now.

Do NOT wear stiletto heels. I love shoes as much as any woman, but I have rarely seen someone who could wear stiletto heels and walk normally. No flip flops or sandals....EVER!

Do NOT show me your tattoos. I personally don't mind them but some of my patients will not like them...so keep them covered. Speaking of covered...I don't want to see your boobs either....check your cleavage before you leave home.

Do NOT come with greasy hair, no make up, un-brushed hair or wearing pajamas. I should not even have to type that.

Do NOT chew gum, play with your hands, play with stuff on my desk, pick at the holes in your jeans, mess with your hair, avoid eye contact or look like a deer in the headlights when I talk to you. I know you are nervous and I understand, I can deal with that, but freaked out or fidgety sends up red flags.

Do NOT tell me what I want to hear....tell me the truth. Most interviewers can tell when you have practiced way to much. I always think...how many interviews has this person had without a job offer?

Do NOT make up stuff....why would anyone say they can do something then set themselves up for failure??? I would much rather you say. I have never done that, I have watched/seen/heard about but I personally have not done it. Then tell me how you are willing to learn and how you are a fast learner with an example (everyone is a fast learner in my interviews)

Do NOT complain about the problems you had in your previous job. All I see is you in my office every day whining or everyone else in there whining about you.

Do NOT tell me how wonderful you are. Tell me what things you do well and have an example to back it up.....everyone does everything well in my interviews.

Do NOT come unprepared. Go on our website and see what we are about. If I see that you have not bothered to care about us, I will assume you want a job and those are offered at other places. We are here for our patients and while the paycheck is awesome and expected, we are not here for that primarily. Find out what kind of things you might be expected to do in a setting like ours and start learning about them and then tell me about how you are brushing up on such and such because you know we probably do a lot of that. I am impressed when someone knows they don't know and are willing to remedy that and have taken the initiative to learn.

What to do.....come with a confident attitude and an awareness of yourself, your skills and your abilities. Come with a smile. Its pretty simple.....or at least I thought it was.

BTW...all of the do NOT's came from things that actually happened in these interviews. It made me ashamed of the nursing profession and seriously worried about the caliber of people the schools are turning out.

I am hoping other managers will add to this thread!

Specializes in Home Care, Peds, Public Health, DD Health.

As I read all the comments on odd things worn, piercings, nails etc. I think back to nursing school and the FIRST DAY! We received a packet in the mail for my nursing program and first thing on top was the DRESS CODE. It stated, no nails, no fake nails, no long nails, they must be clean and with no polish. No piercings worn when attending lab or clinical. Hair up, nothing an unnatural color and they went on to detail the color, if it was other than being dyed a natural color or highlighted, it was not allowed. You could NOT be late or miss class, Ever! (of course it turned out later that some people did for hospitalization, lol!) Details about how to dress. There were so many rules, you wouldn't believe it. The letter stated that if you showed up with any of these things on the first day, you would be sent home. My first instinct was to balk at it and I didn't have any piercings or unnatural hair color etc. But our director came in and explained that they had a waiting list a mile long and that you weren't serious about this program, they would give your spot to someone that was. This was our introduction to how to be professional as a nurse and from here is was constantly reinforced. This was exactly from the dress code at the hospital where we did our clinicals. We had to do two community nursing experiences, we had to dress as we would for an interview and we were inspected and given criticism. we also had a class where we did practice interviews before a class and received criticism from the class, on our dress, our answers etc. I guess after that I find it difficult to believe that any school would leave someone totally unprepared to interview (that they would think pjs were ok), unless they just didn't pay attention.

Both my LPN school and my RN school had basically the same info as anangelsmommy. The problem is, those who show up LATE and/or wearing the banned items, sporting piercings in every part of the face, have the dragon lady nails, etc don't seem to think the rules apply to them.

Our school nursing program handbook specifically states ONLY ALL WHITE SHOES (no clogs, no open toes etc) and yet on the first day of clinical I noticed at least a dozen of the 40 people in class wearing black shoes, multicolored sneakers, and clogs/clog type shoes. Nothing was said...nothing was done. Yet I was 'called out' and accused of not wearing the authorized bottoms of the scrubs. I beg to differ...I most certainly DID purchase my top and bottom at the required uniform shop and they are the ones that the school mandated I purchase. My instructor didn't believe me b/c my top and bottom colors weren't exactly the same...nope...they are not (nor were several other classmates)..but not MY doing...its b/c the school chose the top from one line of the company's tops and the bottoms were not the 'match' to the top, both navy blue but two different hues of navy blue.

Specializes in CCU, SICU, CVSICU, Precepting & Teaching.
Both my LPN school and my RN school had basically the same info as anangelsmommy. The problem is, those who show up LATE and/or wearing the banned items, sporting piercings in every part of the face, have the dragon lady nails, etc don't seem to think the rules apply to them.

Our school nursing program handbook specifically states ONLY ALL WHITE SHOES (no clogs, no open toes etc) and yet on the first day of clinical I noticed at least a dozen of the 40 people in class wearing black shoes, multicolored sneakers, and clogs/clog type shoes. Nothing was said...nothing was done. Yet I was 'called out' and accused of not wearing the authorized bottoms of the scrubs. I beg to differ...I most certainly DID purchase my top and bottom at the required uniform shop and they are the ones that the school mandated I purchase. My instructor didn't believe me b/c my top and bottom colors weren't exactly the same...nope...they are not (nor were several other classmates)..but not MY doing...its b/c the school chose the top from one line of the company's tops and the bottoms were not the 'match' to the top, both navy blue but two different hues of navy blue.

If your instructors were doing their job correctly, you would not know if any one else was corrected for their attire. Remediation and correction should be private.

If your instructors were doing their job correctly, you would not know if any one else was corrected for their attire. Remediation and correction should be private.

I was called out in front of my clinical group..out there in the open, nothing private about it. She corrected me in public for an offense that I had not made. However ,if she did privately remediate and correct Ms Dragon Lady nails, Ms. Rainbow color clogs, Mr Tat on the neck and Ms Tat on the arms, they obviously didn't take it seriously nor did the CI take it seriously b/c 5 weeks into the class they are STILL doing the same thing with breaking dress code and appearance rules.

Specializes in Home Care, Peds, Public Health, DD Health.

Dragon nails wouldn't have made it through the door the first day of class let alone through the door of clinicals! They made them cover tats and piercings with bandaids and things like that but I never heard a big deal except a few gripes from students but I did hear someone making a stink about having pink hair and having to dye it. not sure if she made it back for day two. she either dyed it and came back or didnt and I didnt notice. was too busy keeping my head down! I had my own issue. She tried to kick me out for something my doctor wrote about not being able to do, but we got that straightened out luckily! We were inspected for clinicals down to what kind of shoes and socks we had! But I do know it mattered who your instructor was. The director did make rounds though and that was the time to quake in your boots. if you were wearing something you shouldn't or didn't have your hair the right way etc etc. so when i heard that nurses were sent home during a hospital inspection for wearing fake nails, I thought, wow, I guess they didnt have our nursing director. I never wear polish or grow my nails. It just isnt worth it.

Excellent topic for what not to do on an interview , THank you for the advice definitely give some insight on this process of getting the job

I agree with 99% of what you said, I just disagree about the makeup part. Why on earth is that a requirement?

I absolutely love make up! I will never leave the house without it, unless I am not feeling too good. Make up is not a bad thing, it's makeup ! Makeup can do wonderful things, works just like plastic surgery! Anyway, some people appear very tired, sleepy, overwhelmed, puffy eyes, dark circles. Yes, this is an interview for a nursing unit and not a fashion show, but if someone's face looks so tired and sleepy, it can make you look like you are not interested in the job! Your words and your facial expressions are not matching! Makeup can make some people appear brighter, it will hide your sleepy face and bring out a brighter face! sometimes the makeup shows that you are taking time to care for yourself. Neutral colors are perfect for interviews and daytime, you do not have to wear 2 lbs of makeup unless you are attending a special event. I know that many people do not wear makeup and that's fine, many people seem to think that ugly people wear makeup, people who lack self esteem, those who want to impress people etc.

Specializes in Ortho/Spine, Telemetry, SNF/Rehab.

All I have to say is, as a new grad, I hope these are the people are my competition! :yes: That would take so much pressure off while interviewing! No but in all seriousness, I saw so much of this when I was the senior Medical Assistant at my previous job. A pediatrician's office at that! Don't come in with your giant tongue ring and say "oops! I wont be wearing that at work, I just forgot to tae it out." Ummmmmm....need I say more? This was very entertaining, and very informative at the end, since I'll (hopefully) be interviewing very soon!

It is sad that these tips are even necessary. As a non-traditional nursing student pursuing my life's dream I was raised in an atmosphere of respect. Respect for ones self as well as respect for my elders and superiors. I was also raised that while you may not respect the person you should always respect the position. I do not understand why anyone would think it is ok to leave your home to anywhere in pajamas. I am sorry but IMO pajamas are for at home and bed, not going shopping, to school, the doctor's and most especially to a job interview! I also do not go anywhere without make-up but that is my preference.

I have to wonder what type of nursing school these people are attending to think it is ok to show up to an interview in pajamas, with non human colored hair, piercings and or tattoos showing. In the nursing program I am a part of we are written up and can receive a clinical failure for just about anything but especially for being "out of uniform" which includes human colored hair neatly up in a bun and secure off our collar, one pair of post non-dangle earrings in our ear lobe (if desired), one wedding band (leave the diamond engagement ring at home), white closed back shoes, white plain support hose up to the knee at least, clean white unwrinkled uniform, tattoos covered.

Nursing is a highly respected profession. If someone has a problem with conforming with the rules of the profession as well as the school and the employer than I suggest applying for a job at the mall where anything goes. For those of us who have followed the rules, conformed to the code and take pride in the profession of nursing, it is embarrassing when others are so disrespectful.

It is sad to think that these tips are even necessary but thank you for taking the time to write them out, possibly someone can avoid wasting everyones time by taking them to heart.

Specializes in Medical Surgical.

I just wanted to input my two cents regarding make-up... I quit wearing make-up a few years ago and feel like I have freed myself in many ways. I don't feel selfconscoius going out without make-up, i don't have to run out and buy eyeliner or foundation in the event of running out, i don't have to waste hours of my life applying it, and i don't break out so much from clogged pores!!! Furthermore, i no longer compare how good i look compared to other women when in public.. I love not wearing make-up. I'm not quite ready to burn my bra but I don't think I will ever wear make-up again. I like the natural look. Do you think male nurses should wear make-up to their interview? SHEESH!

Specializes in ICU.

I'm amused by the people taking the makeup advice personally. I interpreted it the common sense way, that's just to wear it if you need it... and I'd say that goes for guys too if you have serious acne discoloration. Don't wear it the rest of the time if you don't want to, but at least disguise some of those imperfections for an interview. I did some hiring at a previous job (not nursing) and if an applicant's face was so broken out, pockmarked, and discolored and the bags under their eyes were ten shades darker than their skin color and hugely puffy, it was hard not to be distracted by their appearance. Sorry. I really do know that's not fair, but it is what it is. When two people are sitting across the table from each other, the face is the most noticeable feature, and if you look like a pizza with burned cheese spots all over it's going to be really hard to see past that. Just a little concealer can go a long way in a situation like that...

This post is one of the best posts I have ever read. By posting this, you just gave me an advantage over other applicants when I go on job interviews. Thank you very much. I appreciate you for posting this. You are awesome!

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