Commute for Job I would love, or less travel to Job I don't like
- 0Oct 11, '12 by countrygalrnJust want some input. Would you rather commute a little over an hour (50 miles) to a job that is in the specialty that you want to make a career out of or stay at a job where the commute is short (15 minutes or about 10 miles) but you don't like the job?
I was offered an L&D position, which I will love. I haven't been able to transfer at my current place of work. I have over a years experience med-surg, and I have definitely had my fill of it. I have learned a lot and I am thankful of it, but I am not happy for multiple reasons. I just worry about the effect of the commute on my relationship.
- 0Oct 12, '12 by Andy Droidunless the job you don't like has a MASSIVE advantage (lots of money) over the other one, I'd say get a decent car with a half decent stereo and enjoy the drive every day.
Sure, the closer job would allow more time with the relationship.... but if you're not happy in the job, and are miserable every day at work, it's bound to spill over into the personal life.
- 0Oct 13, '12 by BlueDevil,DNPI would never commute more than 15 minutes under any circumstances. Keep the short commute for now, and keep looking for a better position within a reasonable distance. 50 miles/minutes each way is simply insane. Not to mention, pregnant women are unbearable patients, lol.
- 0Oct 14, '12 by AZMOMO2, ASNSince I have had to commute 54 miles each way for a job I hated. Heck yeah I would do it for a job that was in the specialty that I wanted.
Who knows you may move closer, or even enjoy the decompression time the commute gives you. Heck, pop in a CD and learn another language while you are at it.
- 1Oct 14, '12 by CASTLEGATESI've commuted 2hrs, lived in a hotel 'till I could find a place. I even moved 1/2 way across the country for one job. There's nothing, NOTHING better than a good job. We spend most of our waking hours at our job (therefor a good part of our lives). Have a good life, find some educational books on tape and get a another degree while commuting! My mother commuted for 2 1/2 hrs and got her MSN listening to books on tape out of it. Commute time is not wasted time.
I always account, if all things are equal, the cost of a commute and take that out of the salary, adding on my tax % on top of that (since I pay for travel with after-tax money).
- 0Oct 14, '12 by klone, BSN, RNIs it a night shift position? If so, I would not commute, only because it wouldn't be safe. My commute when I worked nights was only 25 minutes, and there were mornings I would have to pull into a truckstop to nap for 45 minutes before continuing. If that's not an issue, then I would absolutely make the commute. As someone else said, get a good stereo system, and make use of books on tape and podcasts.