I'm afraid I'm too idealistic. I'm actually reeling and so irritated I want to jump out of my skin. Here's my situation...
I want to spew all the information but of course you never know who's reading so I'll just be somewhat vague. I work on a busy inpatient unit, absolutely love my job, love my patients, love my coworkers (mostly..). We have all worked with those who are less than thrilled with patient care, but I have been working with certain nurses who hate patients. Not one difficult patient, but patients in general. All patients. Not nurses who have been nurses for 30 years and they're a little jaded or a lot jaded or tired of patient care, new nurses, nurses who haven't been nurses for a year, not even for 6 months.
Im disappointed that these people care for my patients. Sometimes, in certain circumstances, I'm afraid for my patients, because their care is entrusted to someone who will tell you from their own lips they don't want to deal with patients and they retreat to their workstation to make up their charting. Really. Does this actually happen often?? I worked with someone who was just so ethically challenged that I couldn't help but report to the nurse in charge who immediately made excuses for her and waved me off. So I decided to report to the oncoming charge nurse who said she would speak with the nurse manager.
I am not a troublemaker. I am well respected by the majority of my coworkers, highly respected by my doctors and my nursing administration. I act as a charge nurse as well, I just didn't happen to be in charge when this was all going down.
I try to be personable with everyone I work with, but I am there to do a job, as is everyone else. I get the feeling that those coworkers that I have that are less than thrilled with me (and there are only a couple) are that way because I am this overachiever, type A, go get em and do the best job you can do every minute of the day type of person. Now, that being said, I don't hold everyone else to the same standard that I hold myself to, but I have a really serious issue with people who don't care to the point that they are neglectful and dangerous (as was the case here.)
I just don't know how to handle this without blowing a stack, mostly because this isn't a one time occurrence, but a continuous problem.