Facebook and Former Patient Friend Request
0Dec 15, '10 by us2uk4uI am a nursing student and one of my former patient's mother friend requested me on FB. So techinically, she was never my patient. We had a connection since her youngest son was recently diagnosed with autism and my 9 year old is severely autistic so she had many questions.
I declined the friend request and explained that this might get me in trouble.
My question is does this violate anything? Because technically she was really not the patient.
0Dec 15, '10 by Quark09I don't really think it was violating anything. I had the mom of a peds patient send me a request after her 14-month old had a bout with MRSA; I had to start his IV in his foot... not a great experience. She had a really rough time of it; he was not an easy stick! The town I was living in was really small though, so it was hard to not run into people . I'm friends with my OB on facebook as well; she sent me a request so she could see pictures of my littlest V while we were in Korea (she's one of those doctors who gets a picture of the babies she's delivered every year; like I said, it's a small town ).
0Dec 15, '10 by Quark09Quote from DeLanaHarvickWannabeThis is trueSomeone, somewhere could find a problem with it, I'm sure.
I've noticed that with some people, you do have to be careful and set some boundaries regarding those emails that start with "Hey, I have a weird medical question for you..." Anecdotal story-swapping is cool (ex: "Hey, I read that gluten-free diets can help with some of my child's issues, do you know anything about that?" Sure, a little; here's a link you might find helpful. Your doctor might have some additional information for you. or "Hey, I have a temperature of 104.3 F and I'm vomiting blood and oozing from my rectum, should I go to the doctor?" Um, probably. Put a towel down on your seat if you're going to drive.) but if someone's pestering you for medical advice, I'd err on the side of caution and politely say "That might be something you'd want to bring up to your doctor." I have one girlfriend who told a mutual friend that she could go off her insulin and easily manage her type II diabetes with diet and exercise and received a very angry phone call from the lady's endocrinologist.
4Dec 15, '10 by traumaRUs, MSN, APRN, CNS AdminYou might want to do a search on this as there have been several threads recently where being friends on FB has led to issues.
Personally, I don't let my pts, past/present, families of friends, etc. be my friend on FB.
Better to keep work and off-work friends apart.
0Dec 15, '10 by cschoppeMy son was in the hospital for several months undergoing chemo when he was 4 months old...I have since then added several of his former nurses and even docs to my FB list...they all like to see how he's doing and all thought that this would be a good way to at least see pics/updates. I am now in my 4th semester of NS and will be doing pedi clinicals at the hospital he was at and would love to run into his former family (on the pedi cancer floor it's like a 2nd home)
I don't think it's a problem, just use your judgement... I also had a patient this semester who was 82 years old and after we got to chatting all throughout my shift she asked if I had FB b/c she wanted to add me as a friend to see how I was doing throughout NS and beyond...I said sure (she was my patient's wife) but she never sent me a request (hope her husband is ok)....
0Dec 15, '10 by jpizzle11Honestly, I think it's extremely weird for a patient or patient's mother to friend-request you on FB. I would never think to do that if I were a patient or family member...nor would I as a nurse want to be FB-friends with a former patient's family. Maybe it's just me...but I think it's inappropriate that she sent the request and it'd be inappropriate if you had accepted (though probably not technically legally problematic.) Sending you a card or picture of her child doing well (addressing it to your workplace) is a normal way for a family member to keep in touch with a nurse that she bonded with...but keeping in touch by being FB-friends definitely is not normal. Best to steer clear.
1Dec 15, '10 by traumaRUs, MSN, APRN, CNS AdminBelieve me, as staff here, you don't want to cross the line between pt/nurse - the consequences:
1. getting kicked out of nursing school
2. Losing your job
3. Having the threat of either of the two
Here is one thread:
NLRB challenges Facebook-related EMT firing - Nursing for Nurses
And another one:
hospital policy on Facebook, cellphones= suspension - Nursing for Nurses
And yet another:
Another nurse bites the dust due to facebook - Page 15- Nursing for Nurses
And...please think twice about posting personal info about you and your job, your patients. The internet is not private.