Ever have a major crush on a doctor

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Ever know someone who has a major crush on a doctor?

Then you have to be extra nice to all the doctors so it's not so obvious that your so nice to your crush doctor. Then your co-workers name 6 other doctors that they think you have a crush on!

Someone else was supposed to be on call one day, I was in a hurry, didn't do a thing with my hair or makeup, then I saw him! (Yikes) So now I watch carefully what I wear, and make up and hair everyday. I've also lost weight. And since both he and I are married, it kinda works for my husband. My husband likes that I do my hair and make up, lost weight, etc. Then I come home and I'm lovey dovey with my husband.

Both my crush doctor and I are both married with kids at home. I would never cheat - you can never take that back. I would never be able to break up 2 families. If my crush doctor ever attempted to cheat on his wife with me, it would kill that whole crush and I would be disgusted with him. (Which I'm sure he'd never do - which adds to his wonderfulness *sigh*)

Specializes in Community Health Nurse.
my all time favorite crush - was ben casey! he's the reason i wanted to be a nurse!
ohhhhhh yessss!!! ben casey was the man back then! what a hottie!! :blushkiss

i've have had a crush on a doctor or two in my nursing career, but never acted on those crushes. if the man looks good, smells good, carrys himself well, speaks with common sense and uses good judgment..........i'm interested. :D

Speaking of OB's...the one that delivered my son was caught cheating on his wife with a nurse at the practice AND a couple of patients. Needless to say, the family man head of the practice got rid of him real quick. He WAS great looking but I had no desire for him....besides, he had five kids too...poor things.

Specializes in Registered Nurse.

I did have a crush on one. He was just cute and had a cute personality. Nothing serious. :)

Specializes in LTC.

Too intimidated by them.

Baby Chainus - you hit the nail right on the head.

Tweety - you're right, I should wear make up and do my hair and loose weight for myself or at least my husband - but sometimes a girl just needs a little inspiration. :nurse:

Not quite to the degree that you're describing.

AND puts the seat down in the bathroom.

I "reprimanded" a doc one afternoon for not putting the seat back down, and he told me to be thankful he put it up! I fell in love with him after that :p

Once for about 10 minutes. I hated the feeling of being so distracted and the confusion of having these feelings for someone other than my hubby. Every time the man popped into my mind I would force myself to think of something else. Worked like a charm- crush over.

But we are all human and the laws of attraction do not care if you are married or not. If your crush is an inspiration than I think no harm done. But if your emotions start to overide your intellect than you will get hurt. So be careful girl! :)

Specializes in NICU.

Have to admit, yes I have. There have been several residents over the years that have made me giddy, and the fact that they're around my age doesn't help! One resident in particular, my gosh, every nurse on our unit had a crush on him. He was just the nicest guy in the world, a very smart doctor, and a father himself so he was just amazing with the babies. But there was another resident who I just clicked with, and I swear, if I was single I'd have tried to snatch him up! Something about him...he was just so cute and nice, and I'd always be finding reasons to call him about patients. If I knew he was on call on a night I'd be working, I'd actually request to have the sickest baby on the unit so he'd be at the bedside all night long. He's done with his residency now, and I honestly hope that he chooses to work at another hospital in the future because I can't stand the temptation!!!

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Specializes in ER;med/surg.

Last year I developed a crush on one of our chief residents that lasted about two weeks but for the strangest reason. He's not particularly attractive, but he's very sweet and attentive. One night, I was overwhelmed with a man who was a full code and circling the drain. This doc had come down to check on one of his post op patients and had found a "code brown". This doc cleaned the man up and changed his bed linens, all by himself!!! I had never even heard of a doc doing this! He came and told me in a very nonchalant way, "Mr. B has a good case of the runs, I cleaned him and changed him, just have the aid check on him. I know you're swamped." I about fell out and developed a whopper of a crush on him after that. Ya know, nurses are attracted to the strangest things.LoL.

Yes, I did that 13 years ago. I was pregnant with my son and the crush was on the OB doc. I had lost 3 babies before that and was an OB nurse at that time working L&D. He took such great care of me and made sure that I was able to carry my son to term. When I went into labor, he did not leave the hospital until I delivered. I think he was as happy as I was that I sailed through my pregnacy. When we worked together and were waiting for a woman to deliver, we would talk all night about our families, his native country(Egypt) and anything else we could think of. He was shocked and sad when I decided to divorce my husband and move away. Now 13 years later, I still go back to visit the hospital and always look him(and his wife up) to see how they are doing. He still asks me when I am coming back so we can work again together. He was always professional and he prob never knew how I felt. I am still grateful for our time we worked together. I learned alot about OB working for him/with him. For now, I still think of how I felt like it was yesterday. Maybe hormones, maybe admiration, maybe a little of both!! :rolleyes:

Gompers - That's it - it's the Click. I might go 4 weeks without really getting to talk to him, then either we have a 5-10 minute personal conversation or I get one his patients that I can discuss with him - and the clicks just keep clicking...*sigh*

Specializes in Med-Surge, PACU, now Hospice.

When I graduated from nursing school, my husband asked me if I was going to leave him for a doc. I quickly said "No way! There are too many docs in my family." I'd have a problem not being on the top of the priority list. I have had a few crushes tho. I agree with a previous post.....if the man is nice, smells good, looks good, etc. I'm interested in them. Have to add a sense of humor (lacking in too many docs.) and great legs. Get to see those wonderful gams working in PACU in the summer when the docs come in to work and check in with us before they change into scrubs.... sigh!

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