Do you still hold doors for women? - page 2
by gtshin30303 8,166 Views | 43 Comments
I still hold doors for women. I once held the door for the female students after class was over. Boy, that took a long time!... Read More
- 1Jul 29, '10 by K.P.A.Hold for everyone...but if it's been a while and a young guy is passing through, I'll pass the torch
For women...open their doors, tend to their coat, bag, and chair, wait until they are seated, tell them they look good (make a point of noticing hair changes, etc), and listen.
- 0Jul 31, '10 by gtshin30303Quote from CT PixieThat is awful. What a jerk.Funny this came up. I was in class yesterday and as I went to leave, some older "gentleman" was trying to come in the door that you should be exiting from (you know the rule, two doors to enter/exit, you use the one to the right). Anyway as I pushed it open (you could not see the man he was standing off to the side of the door) he was pulling it open, I stopped to allow him to walk through as I held the door and he came in like a bull talking about "you wanted EQUAL RIGHTS and to be a FEMINIST, hold your own damn door!" My mouth hit the floor, I was holding the door open for him to enter, not expecting him to hold it for me and allow me to pass. The younger gentleman I had been walking and chatting with (18-20 yrs old) looked at the man and said "I hope no one ever talks to your WIFE or DAUGHTERS that way when they are coming through a door!"
I'll chalk it up to the older man was having a bad day..a really bad day..and took it out on me...ughhhh
- 1Aug 22, '10 by dizzyheadspinQuote from AssailantsYeah me too but I also feel like a douche when a women gives me a weird look for it. I can't help it. Either I'm one helluva creepy fella or she is an Amazonian warrior.I would feel like a douche if I didn't hold the door and there was someone behind me
- 0Aug 26, '10 by dspevak55Of course, but then again, I hold doors for anyone behind me. Regardless of it being appreciated, I still do it...and have taught my children to do it.
However, I also have a door-holding story from college (BGSU in OH). While walking to class, I entered a dorm to take a shortcut towards my class. I opened the door, noticed a woman behind me, and let her pass through before me. She stopped, then berated me for 'implying that she's a member of a weaker gender' then stepped through. I stood there, dumbfounded, at what I thought was helpful act. That is the only time that's ever happened, I'm guessing because everyone else isn't accusing me of having such a dark agenda.
- 0Aug 28, '10 by EuropeanHolding the door specifically for a woman implies that they are fragile and tender and all that crap. Well as far as I know women can be worse jerks than men so I would hold the door for politeness but sometimes I see some guys who run to hold the door for the women. In those moments I laugh inside