Patient Right to Know
- 0Feb 1 by SuperRN_1Last week a patient's test results came back and the patient has liver cancer. The family told staff and doctors that the patient NOT be told. Patient is in her 80s and is alert and oriented. Patient and family are Catholic and Hispanic. A family member is her POA.
Doesn't the patient have the right to know?? I have worked in hospice for 4 years and have never met a family requesting the patient not be told of the diagnosis of cancer. It's usually the other way around (patient requests that family not be told).
When brainstorming with staff, some stated this could be a cultural or religious thing. Some stated that family might be worried that if patient finds out, patient will give up or lose hope.
Has anyone ever come across something like this? If the patient were to ask the Dr what she has, doesn't the Dr HAVE to tell her, regardless of the family's request? Doesn't the patient have the right to know she has cancer?
- 3Feb 1 by WhisperaChances are the patient already knows.
I've had this experience with hospice patients and their families. It puts you in a spot, doesn't it? If the patient is alert and oriented, it seems to me she has the right to know, but the family is your client too in hospice. Maybe get the chaplain and/or social worker involved?
- 1Feb 2 by GinapixiI have seen similar cases quite a few times. Some times it was denial on the side of the family, some times over-protectiveness, some times selfishness... the reasons are many and for those working with death and dying on a regular basis often hard to understand.
Over the years I have come to the conclusion that each family has their patterns of dealing with unpleasant events. Those patterns are not easily changed and much less broken! It takes a lot of patience and understanding, listening and feeling for the right moment, when some family member (or the patient) dare to open the door a crack. The patients often know and do not dare to talk about it either. As long as we value life on this earth more than honesty, as long as we play pretend games, we as the caretakers of patient as well as family have to be patiently and gently pushing toward a place of rest for all. Not an easy job!
- 3Feb 3 by loriangel14 GuideWhere I work the POA only has the right to make decisions if the patient is unable. If the patient is alert and oriented the doctor will deal with them directly and they are told the truth about their condition. I do believe the the patient has the right to know.
- 1Feb 3 by Daisy_08I have had a pt where they did not know they were dying as per POA. Similar demographics to your case. We respected the POAs wishes....it had already been decided when she was admitted so I'm not sure if there was some decision process before. I think its case-by-case. With mine I don't think it would have changed anything had she known. Mind you if the pt asks, I don't think I could lie.
- 0Feb 6 by SuperRN_1Quote from NutmeggeRNYes, she's alert and oriented and does have a DMPOA. But the DMPOA doesn't matter right now because patient is still decisional. That's why I'm so confused. Patient should be told everything that's going on. I feel that family doesn't have the right to hold that info back from her.Do you have an ethics committee? They may be able to help with this. If she is alert and oriented, should she not have the right to get her affairs in order? Does she have a DMPOA?
If I were in that patients shoes, I'd be ticked off if family and medical staff didn't tell me what was going on!
- 0Feb 6 by SuperRN_1Quote from Daisy_08I wouldn't be able to lie either. If asked, I would tell the patient that I'll have the doctor come in and discuss it with her. I wouldn't want to be the one to tell her, especially if there's some legalities to all this and I could get in trouble for telling her.I have had a pt where they did not know they were dying as per POA. Similar demographics to your case. We respected the POAs wishes....it had already been decided when she was admitted so I'm not sure if there was some decision process before. I think its case-by-case. With mine I don't think it would have changed anything had she known. Mind you if the pt asks, I don't think I could lie.