Is it considered fraternization if I'm a civilian who is entering the Navy as an officer and have a boyfriend who is currently enlisted?
I'm a nursing student and just got accepted to the Navy Nurse Candidate Program. I will be commissioned after I graduate college (and pass the NCLEX) and before I go to Officer Development School.
Would it be better if my boyfriend and I get married before I get commissioned?
Or is it okay to wait until after ODS and I am all settled in my first duty station?
We want to get married so there's a better chance for us to be stationed relative close together. We're just trying to figure out when is the best time to do it. I still have 1.5 years till graduation.
He says it's better to do it before I'm commissioned so we'll have the paper to prove we were married before I joined... but I was hesitant to get married right around the time I'm gonna take the NCLEX and right before ODS because the name change and status change may affect all the required paperwork required for my license and ODS... Is there anyone who has insight on this?
(For the record, I would marry him in a heart beat right now [because 1. I love him to death and see myself with no one else for the rest of my life, and 2. there's more time and it'll easier to fix all the paperwork stuff], but my parents are strict and want me to graduate first that's why I'm trying to figure out what my other options are).