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This attitude is beginning to grate on me!

A lot of people on this board (and in our programs) indicate that a C will not "cut it" for them, they "expect" more of themselves... blah blah blah. I can understand this but what I don't like is the inherent disrespect for those of us who indicate we are really quite thrilled to pass. When I was in pre-reqs I worked very hard to get A's in my classes. I just finished my first quarter in nursing school and the amount of material we had to cover and the expectations placed upon us were somewhat brutal (at least when compared with "regular" college). My attitude abruptly shifted and became: I will work hard but I will NOT beat myself up for being less than perfect and I will remember that survival is key and will be pleased to simply pass. One person in particular looked down her nose at me when I expressed that opinion and said that she expected more from herself than to merely... (snotty look inserted) pass.

I guess what annoys me about this is just because someone says they're thrilled simply to pass doesn't mean they work any less (or make any lower grades) than someone who says they expect As... To indicate that this is not a sour grapes post and to underline what I'm trying to say, I did make one of the few As in our class for the term, but my attitude remains the same: My goal (while I shoot for As) is ultimately to survive and pass. Why is that so bad??

I'm curious to know how many people get actual ulcers over their grades. Crazy.

Last semester I thought I'd be one of them. But I smartened up real quick :)

This reminds me of my little 89.72 final course grade in one of my classes. I kept thinking OMG if I had only gotten 2 more questions right on exam 2, or spent 10 more minutes studying for my practicum...but hey, in the end a B is a B (even though I would rather have made an 80.72 so it would make the B feel a bit better). It's ok though, cuz in my other classes I was right on the line but I was on the good side of it. :) Don't stress about it because what's done is done. Just look forward to the opportunities to do great next semester!!
I always figured that the B's that were 89.05 or so balanced out those A's that were 90.05's.

:p

I graduated in RN in 2000 and took my nursing boards on 9/11/2001 and passed. I continued going to school and only did home care. Employers want to immediately put me into management being that I am an RN. I would like to start out as a Staff Nurse to gain some experience as a nurse first before I manage anyone. I am wondering where a new nurse can go to get her feet wet before being thrown into a management position? How did you all start out and where can you get the best training?

Also there are pre-employment tests that consist of medication and calculations. I am not so sure what to study from for these tests since there is so many different drug names out here. Any suggestions?

Where was this? Did you know what was happening before you went into the test, or only after?

NurseFirst

The only reason I even care about my grades is b/c I want to go on to get my Master's degree and possibly a PhD. I don't look down on people who work really hard but get lower grades than I do. I look down on the people who are lazy and mooch off others so they can pass. :angryfire

Specializes in 5 yrs OR, ASU Pre-Op 2 yr. ER.
The only reason I even care about my grades is b/c I want to go on to get my Master's degree and possibly a PhD. I don't look down on people who work really hard but get lower grades than I do. I look down on the people who are lazy and mooch off others so they can pass. :angryfire

AMEN!!!!!!!

I'm curious to know how many people get actual ulcers over their grades. Crazy.

Last semester I thought I'd be one of them. But I smartened up real quick :)

I sure hope not (ulcers), but I imagine it might effect some like that.

For me the knowledge is far more important than the status of the grade. I want to be a great nurse and have the self satisfaction that I try my best no matter what grade I get while getting there.

I know that there will be times when a C is the best I can produce. As long as I know that I gave it my best effort then I can be content.

I always figured that the B's that were 89.05 or so balanced out those A's that were 90.05's.

:p

That's exactly what happened!! I made an 89.72 in one class then a 90.28 in another. So if you avergae them out....I should have made two A's, right? ;)

I'll be quite honest with you. With my prereqs, I would be very hard on myself in trying to get an A and feel a sense of loss if I don't get an A. But to be honest with you, when it comes to nursing school, while I will strive to do the very best that I can, if I can successfully get through nursing school with a "B." I will be very proud. I don't look down on students that don't get all "A's" or think less of them. Besides, from what I can see with nursing school...someone that gets A's on all tests will not necessarily make a good nurse if they can apply the knowledge that they have learned.

Kris

Specializes in OB, M/S, HH, Medical Imaging RN.

I strived very hard to do good in nursing school and ended up with an 3.87 average. Doing good was a personal goal for me, nothing more, nothing less. Had I gotten a C in a class I certainly wouldn't have been devastated. A "C" is classified as average. Average is not so bad.

The most important point I want to make is that in 28 years as a nurse not once has anyone asked me what grades I made ! Likewise, I've never asked a physician about his grades either !

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