Outside of your work environment......

  1. 0 If you saw a nurse that bullied you, gave you hell, gossiped about you, and was one of the main reasons you transferred to another unit OUTSIDE of your work environment, would you confront them on their behavior?

    And if you did, could that put your license at risk?

    Or would you "let it go", considering you are not at work at this time?
  2. Visit  shoegalRN profile page

    About shoegalRN

    From 'USA'; Joined Dec '06; Posts: 1,379; Likes: 2,114.

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  3. Visit  caliotter3 profile page
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    I would stay as far away from this person as possible.
    GooeyRN, canoehead, Otessa, and 7 others like this.
  4. Visit  Sparrowhawk profile page
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    Let it go and run away
    mesa1979 likes this.
  5. Visit  shoegalRN profile page
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    Quote from caliotter3
    I would stay as far away from this person as possible.
    Trust me, I wanted to say something so bad to this person, but I didnt.

    I gave her an evil look to let her know we are not at work, say something now, I DARE you! If looks could killed, she would have been dead.

    I pushed my basket right past her and kept it moving.
    LovebugLPN and mesa1979 like this.
  6. Visit  SuesquatchRN profile page
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    If you absolutely must speak with her be perfectly correct and perfectly icy.

    "What do you think of me?"

    "But I don't thnk of you.:

    Far worse than letting a bully know she got to you.
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  7. Visit  shoegalRN profile page
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    Quote from SuesquatchRN
    If you absolutely must speak with her be perfectly correct and perfectly icy.

    "What do you think of me?"

    "But I don't thnk of you.:

    Far worse than letting a bully know she got to you.
    I happened to see her while I was shopping. She was not worth me getting upset on my leisure time.

    But I did look her square in the eye, up and down, to let her know you do NOT intimidate me. We are not in the hospital now so that bullying mess don't fly.

    The ONLY thing that stopped me from really giving her a toungue lashing was my license. She seems like the type that would call the BON anoymously and make up false charges just to "get back". So, I let it go.
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  8. Visit  Poi Dog profile page
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    I would stare straight ahead and yawn while passing them.
    canoehead, Otessa, Zookeeper3, and 3 others like this.
  9. Visit  shoegalRN profile page
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    Quote from Kohala71
    I would stare straight ahead and yawn while passing them.

    We were walking towards each other. So I looked her dead in the face and then walked right past her. But the look I gave her was pure evil, I guess you can say "mean mugging" if you will.

    No words were exchanged, but I was waiting on her to even think she can say ONE word to me outside of the hospital. Hell, I want her to think she can say one word to me INSIDE the hospital. I'm no longer on her unit, nor work the same shift as she do, so she has no reason what so ever to utter one word to me, PERIOD.
  10. Visit  Otessa profile page
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    I would make a beeline away from this person as they have proved themselves to be TOXIC!

    otessa
    Not_A_Hat_Person likes this.
  11. Visit  lsad78 profile page
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    Sounds like she is Trouble with a capital T!...Stay away....Your license is way more important you have and still work so hard to protect it!
  12. Visit  RubyRN,CHPN profile page
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    Get away from her and her toxic aura lickety split.
  13. Visit  realnursealso/LPN profile page
    1
    I might have mumbled, "There but for the grace of God go, I." You did good.

    Meaning

    I too, like someone seen to have suffered misfortune, might have suffered a similar fate, but for God's mercy.
    Last edit by realnursealso/LPN on Mar 17, '10 : Reason: to add something
    morte likes this.
  14. Visit  cherrybreeze profile page
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    Quote from afrocentricRN
    I happened to see her while I was shopping. She was not worth me getting upset on my leisure time.

    But I did look her square in the eye, up and down, to let her know you do NOT intimidate me. We are not in the hospital now so that bullying mess don't fly.

    The ONLY thing that stopped me from really giving her a toungue lashing was my license. She seems like the type that would call the BON anoymously and make up false charges just to "get back". So, I let it go.
    Ah, but you see, she DID upset you on your leisure time. Even just that *mean look* you gave her, proved that to both her, and you. Pretending like you didn't recognize her, and not acknowledging her, would have had a better effect. She knows she got to you, and that you're not over it.

    Not sure how your license would be on the line in any capacity by talking to her, though....the false charges thing really seems like a stretch?
    Baloney Amputation likes this.


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