Okay...I wouldn't have put it that particular way, I may have asked you why you wish to be a nurse and start from there!
Even I, when I started, had a very serious image of being a professional in charge of my own career, to be helpful, to be in a field that is stable, and to be very respected! Well, they are all true...just not in the way I ever though! It is certainly not as cut and dry as that...it is a career that has potential to excel tremendously...but at great costs for some (and we aren't talking just money either!). It is far from easy, and I don't think it ever does become routine or easy!
Working with people has its up side for sure, but it also has some serious soal sucking downsides that one must realize at face value! And most people coming in don't have any clues about that beyond..."yeah, it must suck to see dead people...or sick kids". And if you don't find your own personal satisfaction niche in the career quickly..you will see these down sides via depressions and dissatisfaction more than the more positive and really..that will take your spirit away quickly and have you burning out fast! That is certainly something they didn't print on my brochure for RN school!
It is also very tough to go through RN school! It is a 100% time consuming commitment for years...and most people have very limited perceptions of the truth behind that along with higher expectations of themselves at first! After a few months folks start to realize..."holly cow what in the heck did I get myself into!!!!!!!". People will battle that feeling throughout nursing school
, but actually with family/friend/fellow students support that one can be quelled rather easily one stressed out moment at a time!
There is also matters that are typical with working with people that is less than pleasant. Take any job you have had working with people, remember those things you hated about it...you have those same things in nursing but add to the pot the fact that most people, by the time they get to your are ill, dying, have freaked out family memebers with them, are confused and scared, feeling powerless and helpless or down right solid depression or denial, add in a dose of having to work with Docs (that can be a full post on its own! LOL!), and lots of legal issues surrounding malpractice or neglect and the constant fear that no matter how hard you work, someone can put a friv lawsuit on you....you may be getting the picture now, and the reason why that particular nurse said that to you!!!!!
I would try as hard as you can to find a program or ask some nurses if they have a 'shadow program', which is where a nurse can take you along with them as they work for you to observe a day in the life! I would do this IN HOSPITAL since this is where you will start in the first place, and can be a very good look into a nurses role! This will not only give you an insight I wished I had had, but will show you the challenges you will be taking on after years of even more challenging schooling! Better to see what you are leaping into than having your eyes closed and a prayer before leaping!
But don't dispair, there are also wonderful things about nursing...one of the rare careers where you can switch around to different practices, can teach, can help form policies for the practice, can even become a Nurse Practitioner if you wish. There is no limit if you work VERY HARD in what you can do in our field! Also, the happier side of working with people does take on a much larger satisfaction rate then it may have in other jobs you may have had! Money is good dependant (much more than working other jobs, but not as much as some either!), and YOU can make a change in someones life that will effect them for the better...and when you get those, well, simply awesome!!!!!!
Think about why you wish to become a nurse...list about three...then add them to this post. We nurses or others may shed some light on those and why they are good/bad or indifferent!
Oh yeah, if I had to do it all over again...veterinarian big time, I actually would rather have gone with my years of knowledge and works with Birds/Reptiles and other mammals (I started working with animals at a very young age and was on my way to be a vet, wow...did my path switch with a offer of a grant for RN school huh?!?!?). Or I would have gone for my BSN (I have an ADN) and focused on my masters to teach!!!!!! I love teaching!!!!