I experience physical symptoms when I think about my job!

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Here's a little background on me. I work weekend double shifts every Saturday and Sunday at a skilled nursing facility, and have 5 days off in a row from Monday through Friday. My 2 year anniversary will arrive in February 2008.

However, I experience physical symptoms at the mere thought of this facility. I laid in bed for 3 hours today during the early afternoon hours, because I began feeling GI symptoms such as nausea and stomach ache after thinking about my upcoming shifts this weekend.

The first year at this workplace went well, because I worked the traditional nursing home section. This past year has been different, because I now work the rehab section. The rehab patients tend to be selfish, demanding, impatient, abusive, and wanting instant gratification. They are also higher acuity than the typical nursing home patient due to recent surgeries (CABGs, laminectomies, arthroplasties, hysterectomies, amputations), yet I usually have 15 to 20 of them by myself.

The family members tend to be abusive, vulgar, demanding, and always making thinly-veiled threats to staff. I enjoy nursing, but I absolutely hate other aspects of working at this place. I'm just trying to hang on until my 2nd anniversary in February 2008. Thanks for listening.

Specializes in Emergency, Trauma, Flight.

and as for your pysical symptoms...

well.... once you accept it all... those will go away..

i had em too.... trust... it sucks... i know..

hugggggss~~~

:cool:

Specializes in OB, M/S, HH, Medical Imaging RN.
I am pretty much in the same position - unable to sleep before going to work, unable to sleep the night after the shift, running in my head the whole shift and worrying about something I forgot to do, and coming back to work next day, and night shift rubs it in your face. I am so tired to work unappreciated and unsupported. I still have 2 days off ahead of me right now, but still think about this terrifying job of mine, it never let go of me. At least you can leave in February. My 2 years will be in June, and I have no idea how to make it til then.

If you're truely miserable but hanging in for the vacation time and you've got 6 months to go...you're health is not worth that vacation time. You may be too sick to enjoy it. I hung in a job where I was burnt out and ended up with a depression so severe I couldn't work for 3 entire months.

Specializes in OB, M/S, HH, Medical Imaging RN.
i am gonna post this cause i love ya girl.... you know that...

sounds to me like you are a *cry-baby*....

we all have it hard.. in many different aspects......

sadly..

i guarentee if you were a pt..

you would be exactly like they are...

so... cut em some slack...

they do not wanna be there...

you are paid to be there....

it is your job...

i have pt's just like that too...

and i curse them in my thoughts...

but...i get over it..

i realize their situations...

i get to know them....

get to know their families...

all will be good...

i promise!!!!

:cool:

Respectfully, I don't think that advice is appropriate in this case. Every one is different, you can't lump everyone together especialy not guys and cry babies...we are very different indeed.

Specializes in Mixed Level-1 ICU.

"Respectfully, I don't think that advice is appropriate in this case. Every one is different, you can't lump everyone together especialy not guys and cry babies...we are very different indeed."

I agree...but the symptoms are too universally telling to ignore.

You do not need to take abuse from anyone! But if this sort of behavior is typical of that place and it has been condoned for a long time, pack up your skills and go.

Your body is screaming at you to leave.

Stop intellectualizing your feelings. That place is making you sick.

I don't think the cry-baby advice fits here with this situation. They pile on 15 or 20 pts and we're just supposed to accept it? I agree with the listen-to-your-body advice. There may be a valid reason to stick it out until Feb, I don't know. But then make your escape for sure. I did, and now I'm the luckiest nurse alive. I actually look forward to going to work. Oh, and I took that soultype quiz and came out a Warrior Soul, no suprise there. If we let them pile on 20 rehab pts then where does it stop? 30 or 40?

"But if you say a thing about it, you be in trouble with the man....

Oh let the Midnight Special shine its light on me

Let the Midnight Special shine its ever lovin light on me."

-sung by Johnny Rivers

Look for a new job now. If you find one, use your two weeks vacation as your notice period. I've done it and it's never hurt me.

Rehab is hell on earth for nurses of any grade.

Specializes in Community Health, Med-Surg, Home Health.

(((Commuter))))

You know that I think very highly of you, and it is funny, for some reason, I was thinking about you recently and don't know why. I also experienced these feelings, up to very recently. I think that I mentioned in the Break Room that I had a cleaning crew come to clean my house. I was so exhausted, both physically and emotionally, that when I got home, I did not have the incentive to clean up, and I was also having the same physical ailments you explained.

When they cleaned my house, suddenly, I started to cry, and I realized that it was due to anxiety. I had gone to my doctor and told him that I needed to get on Zoloft to get that edge off. I never suffered from anxiety until my mother died 8 years ago. And, when she did, a few months later, I started having those feelings, and took Zoloft for about 6 months. Now, each time I see those symptoms coming, I will go back and get on it again, and I had to a few weeks ago. I am feeling much better, more rested, and have a different outlook. Yes, I still get the same reception from the patients and families as you have described, but, I take it a different way, now. I am not spaced out on that medication, but it did make me see clearer and my coping skills improved. I will probably take it until spring.

I am not saying that you need medication, only you can make that decision. But, you are in school, and working long hours on the weekend with no day to claim as your own. Maybe now, with the school break, you can regroup a bit.

I just want you to know that although I have never met you, you have an energy that radiates maturity, common sense, intelligence and wisdom. I'm routing for you, girl!!

Specializes in Case mgmt., rehab, (CRRN), LTC & psych.

Thanks for taking the time to respond. However, I have been the patient more than once, and never once did I make unreasonable demands of the healthcare staff. I never walked behind the nurses station unannounced, flipping through their MARs and medical records without permission. I never screamed at staff or hurled insults at them. I never threatened any nurses. I never barked orders at staff as if they were my personal slaves. I never insisted that any employees run to the soda machine for me. I never accused the staff of anything, or behaved toward them in a defensive manner. I never used a call light for "pillow fluffing requests," when I had the strength to move the pillow myself.

My opinion is that people in society are slowly losing basic respect for each other. There's no reason to treat another human being so poorly, especially when that human is a healthcare worker who is trying to help some important aspect of your life.

i am gonna post this cause i love ya girl.... you know that...

sounds to me like you are a *cry-baby*....

we all have it hard.. in many different aspects......

sadly..

i guarentee if you were a pt..

you would be exactly like they are...

Specializes in Community Health, Med-Surg, Home Health.
i am gonna post this cause i love ya girl.... you know that...

sounds to me like you are a *cry-baby*....

we all have it hard.. in many different aspects......

sadly..

i guarentee if you were a pt..

you would be exactly like they are...

so... cut em some slack...

they do not wanna be there...

you are paid to be there....

it is your job...

i have pt's just like that too...

and i curse them in my thoughts...

but...i get over it..

i realize their situations...

i get to know them....

get to know their families...

all will be good...

i promise!!!!

:cool:

In all due respect, this is really a bit harsh and inappropriate to call someone who is reaching out a crybaby. The OP did not say that she was abusive to the patients, or not empathetic, she stated that she is experiencing physical symptoms related to things that stress her out. We have the right to react SOMEHOW to things that disturb us. Not everyone has to enjoy each aspect of our jobs, especially if we are being abused.

I just posted a thread on how a mother and daughter waited for a nursing assistant outside of her job to beat her up. Was that poor nursing assistant a cry baby when she was physically attacked by two people? Is it part of her job to be violated like that?

Specializes in Vents, Telemetry, Home Care, Home infusion.

Check out if large homecare agencies in your area have 12/12 WE position for LPN's .....or offer to create role with SNF rehab background should be snatched up in a minute as HUGE part of our population especially for WE wound care needs. They are grateful to be home and treat most nurses with respect.

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