Yesterday, I was sitting with the charge nurse at the nurse's station, & a patient's family member came marching angrily toward us. "I have something for you; here!", she said irritably & loudly. She then shoved a tiny spider she'd caught in the patient's room in my charge nurse's face. She went on to tell us she was sure there were more spiders, & we needed to do something about it immediately. I watched my charge nurse put the spider in a bag & calmly tell her we would call staff to address it.
Here's what I wanted to say, even though I remained silent: "Ma'am, nurses are not your punching bag. We are not responsible for pest control or housekeeping because we are busy preserving the life & health of your loved one. If you want to be angry about a tiny, little spider, take your anger out on mother nature instead."
Do you ever feel like you are a punching bag to people as a nurse? Can you share a funny/weird/irritating event that happened to you at work in dealing with rude people? It'll be fun.