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he was 32 wks old. beautiful baby boy with a head full of hair. Weighed in at 2lb 14oz, 16inches long. He made it through the most difficult time and had just 8 weeks left to come into this world.... Read More

  1. Visit  Puddintain12 profile page
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    I'm so sorry for the loss of your dear son. I know that pain all too well. We lost a beautiful son at 34 wks, 11 years ago. I think of him every day. You will get through this....let yourself grieve, be gentle with yourself. People will want you to move on because they are uncomfortable...but it is okay for you and your family to take time. Talk about him with friends and family..look at his pictures. God will help get you through, He is always with you.

    When you are ready, I would urge you to join: www.SPALS.com All of the women on this site know what you are going through. You can share your sadness, happiness, dispair, and comfort and it will help. I never would have made it through Ben's death and my next pregnancy without this site.

    My prayers are with you and your family.
  2. Visit  mama_d profile page
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    I'm so sorry for your loss, and for everyone else's as well that have stories of their own to share. Know that you have hundreds of people out here sending you and yours the warmest fuies to wrap around your hearts.

    Another place to look for support is www.nationalshare.org . When I worked poast-partum they were absolutely wonderful with our moms who had suffered losses.

    The cabbage leaves work; I found that bruising the leaves before tucking them in helped even more.

    If you're working at a place with chaplains, utilize them as well...they aren't just there for the patients.

    And please please please stop beating yourself up.
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  3. Visit  Alibaba profile page
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    So,,,am back. I logged back in to thank everyone that offered their support and a listening ear at the darkest and very painful point of my life.

    I have had a rough month and a half, but am on my way toward a new 'normal'.
    My physical wounds have been very difficult to heal, and I still have a spot on my suture site that just refuses to heal, plus I still have abdominal pain (which makes me wonder what all is going on on the inside although my OB is unconcerned).
    My emotional wounds are deep and long lasting, but at least I don't cry all the time like I used to.

    I go back to work on monday, but to be honest, I do not think I am physically or emotionally ready to do so.

    I have also decided to leave my husband and have consulted with an attorney. Paperwork should be filed in the next couple of weeks. I think I just realized how little time and control we really have in this world, and I do not want to live my limited time unhappily.

    The one thing I know for sure is that I will be ok. After all, I have my very own guardian angel...Ezekiel.
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  4. Visit  nicenurselpn profile page
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    Quote from alibaba
    so,,,am back. i logged back in to thank everyone that offered their support and a listening ear at the darkest and very painful point of my life.

    i have had a rough month and a half, but am on my way toward a new 'normal'.
    my physical wounds have been very difficult to heal, and i still have a spot on my suture site that just refuses to heal, plus i still have abdominal pain (which makes me wonder what all is going on on the inside although my ob is unconcerned).
    my emotional wounds are deep and long lasting, but at least i don't cry all the time like i used to.

    i go back to work on monday, but to be honest, i do not think i am physically or emotionally ready to do so.

    i have also decided to leave my husband and have consulted with an attorney. paperwork should be filed in the next couple of weeks. i think i just realized how little time and control we really have in this world, and i do not want to live my limited time unhappily.



    the one thing i know for sure is that i will be ok. after all, i have my very own guardian angel...ezekiel.

    my thoughts and prayers are with you. i too have lost a child and i know the pain and heartbreak.

    nicenurse lpn
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  5. Visit  Alibaba profile page
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    thanks!
    Sorry about your loss too
  6. Visit  Caffeine_IV profile page
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    I'm glad that things are coming together for you. You have had a tough time.

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