This topic has received a lot of attention over the years. People seem to love it or hate it. Adding compassion to the mix may take it into a new direction. Nurses Announcements Archive Article
QuoteNow that I am off orientation, I constantly fear getting fired. I swear I hear monitors in my sleep. One time in the last few months, a manager said "good job", it helped. I'm at the mercy of whoever is charge nurse that shift. I never realized it would be this hard to find a mentor. -First-year nurse
The old saying goes "if you want to hear God laugh tell him your plans." Early in my doctoral program, I had planned on studying healthy aging, as in what do people who age well do that the rest of us don't. But an assignment in a theory class changed my course. We had to interview and write up a case study of one participant and I interviewed the novice nurse quoted above. It was sad and disheartening and made me want to hug her and tell her it would all be okay soon, but I couldn't promise that. Of course, she reminded me of myself as a new grad.
When I got into nursing I had no idea about the potential for mistreatment. Perhaps I was young and naive, but I can't be accused of having preconceived notions or self-fulfilling prophesies for bullying. I had taken a job 1500 miles from home where I didn't know a soul except for the guy I moved there with. There was no work for new graduates in the mid-'90s, in the city where I lived. I took a job on nights in the float-pool -- what was I thinking? Again, had no idea that float nurses notoriously get very difficult assignments with minimal orientation. I won't bore you with the details but it was the hardest year of my life. Things at home were bad, things at work were unbearable, and I had bad insomnia because I couldn't sleep during the day. I'm pretty sure there were some patients and their families that didn't get the best possible care because of all these factors, though I meant well. Luckily after my one year, I got a new job in a much healthier environment and could recover.
Not everyone is that lucky. Nurses leave their units, hospitals, and careers because of scenarios like these. And in extreme cases hurt or kill themselves. You never know what someone is going through outside of work, and it takes little effort to make them feel cared for or like they don't matter. I know there are nurses out there who hate this topic because they think it's untrue, exaggerated, or gives nursing a bad rap. I myself cringe when people say women can't work together. Even if it's 10 percent of us who face it, that's 300,000 people's lives and the patients and families that are touched by this!
To do no harm is extremely important, but what about kindness and be compassion for our co-workers? We must lift each other up. Have you ever seen two firefighters meet each other for the first time? Instant brothers, no matter where they work. Why can't nursing be that way? A study (Barsade & O'Neill, 2014) out of Wharton School of Business studied compassion in nursing home employees. Units scored by staff as compassionate demonstrated less absenteeism and more favorable reviews from residents and family.
The current study I'm working on (Exploring Nurse Bullying [horizontal violence, lateral violence, incivility] and Quality Patient Care Survey) combines these two concepts, bullying and compassionate environment. I'm looking to see if patient care is affected by either or both. Preliminary results show nurses from all over the country and outside the country, with wide ranges of age and years of experience, are reporting being bullied. And it is impacting the care they can give. I'm still collecting surveys, so if you care to join please see my post on allnurses: Bullying at Work: What is Your Experience?
And, share with any nurses you know. I will give a final report when the study is concluded.
Reference
Barsade, S. G., & O'Neill, O. A. (2014). What's love got to do with it? A longitudinal study of the culture of compassionate love and employee and client outcomes in a long-term care setting. Administrative Science Quarterly, 59(4), 551-551. doi:10.1177/0001839214538636