Recently at my facility, there was a family member who gained a quick reputation for being extremely verbally abusive towards our staff. He told the CNA she was a 'bedpan fetcher' and that her job was disgusting, and repeatedly told the RN that she was incompetent. It turned out that this family member was a prominent member of the local healthcare community, and was very well known by the 'higher ups.'
Who do you go to in such a case? His behavior was BEYOND unprofessional. Our management was aware of this situation, as was the CEO/President and the CNO of our hospital. No one said anything to this man regarding his behavior. Unfortunately nurses deal with verbal assaults from patients/families all too often, but I think with this man's status, it created a very unique situation.
I'm just curious to know what others' experiences are and policies they have in place related to patient abuse towards staff.