I'm a little "steamed" as I write this but I need to vent, so here goes....Today when I went on duty I was relieving a young lady that made a comment that just "ruffled my feathers". My husband and I frequently work on the same unit, I am the charge nurse and he is a Q.M.A. (Qualified Medicine Aid) She was rattling on and on and said, "I am getting so tired of being a glorified QMA. I didn't go to school for 4 years to pass meds and do treatments all day. I want to be a real nurse!!!" Now, my question is, "What is a real nurse?" Is it not part of our jobs to administer medications to those who need them, or do treatments? Since when does doing this make us not real nurses? I really think the point she was flaunting was that she was a 4 year RN and he was "just a QMA" and could do the trivial work to free her up for better things. If he had not been my spouse I would have jumped in with a nice long speech about how that if she didn't feel she was a real nurse, she could go into another field of nursing. We work in LTC facility for the elderly and I'll admit we don't get much "heart pumping action" but nursing is all about holding the hands of the sick, dealing with them physically, mentally and very often, spiritually. I am a 20 year nurse and her statement made me sizzle inside. And I'm fairly certain she doesn't consider me a "real nurse" as I am an LPN but what she thinks really doesn't bother me for I am the one that holds the hand, gives the pills and powders the bottoms that need it and I love it. I just didn't quite understand what she felt a real nurse was???? I admire those of you with a greater level of education than myself, but I'd almost bet that most of you would respect my 20+ years of experience too, so what was her point here? I'd appreciate your insight. As I said, if my spouse hadn't been the QMA I would have gotten invloved but I sorta feel like she was hoping for that, so she could say we shouldn't be working together, which we have done for years. What do you think...is there a point here I'm missing or was she just trying to rattle my chains and get my dander up?