What do I do about nurses who think my job is worthless?

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I work part-time as a patient safety attendant. We sit with patients who are suicidal, confused, depressed, fall risk, etc. I know we literally "sit" at times, but it is still a job and I took this job to help me during nursing school. I work at different floors all the time. One shift, I overheard the nurse say that all she does is watch the tv. I was with a patient who was a fall risk at a cancer floor. He had the news channel on even from the night before and when I asked him if he wanted me to turn it off, he said no, he likes that channel. He slept most of the time while I was there, so since the tv was in front of me, I saw it at times. At another shift, the nursing assistant told the nurses in behind the counter where they sit in front of the computers that she was going to relieve me for lunch, and they said,"go relieve her from her chair and giggled." I just went on my break, but I was very offended. I know we can't do much, but it is still a job, and if the nurses think it's so worthless, why call the sitters to sit with the patients?

Specializes in Adolescent & Adult Psychiatry.

THOSE WHO MIND DON'T MATTER AND THOSE WHO MATTER DON'T MIND.

You should bring a bell to work one day, ring it, and tell them that recess is over. ^_^

Specializes in OB/GYN/Neonatal/Office/Geriatric.

I am an RN that cannot find a job. I am working as a sitter in a client's home. Fortunately I get paid RN pay. While I continue to look for a nurse position I am grateful for what I have. I feel that I make a difference in this person's life just by being there and giving emotional support. I also help with her ADLs. Take pride in what you do, connect with the client in some way. Just your mere presence can't make all the world to them. At that is really what it is all about--making sure they are safe. Be as helpful as you can in your role and be proud. These nurses and CNAs are most likely just upset with their own dissatisfaction of their job and you are an easy target. Like I said, be as helpful to them as possible in your role and hopefully they will realize how lucky they are to have someone in attendence with one of their patients.

Specializes in PICU now, Peds and med-surg in the past.

I personally LOVE whoever it is who is sitting with my confused/suicidal patient (in my hospital sometimes a NA, sometimes a dedicated "sitter") They are helping me be able to get all the rest of my work done which I wouldn't be able to do if I was sitting with that patient all the time. Sitters are very valuable to nurses, they are our eyes and ears when we can't be with the patient and on more than one occasion I have had a patient who felt comfortable enough with their sitter to really open up (such as a teenager who had OD'd on a medication, at first insisted it was an accident but admitted to the SITTER after hours that he was indeed trying to kill himself). If it weren't for that sitter, would he have felt comfortable enough to open up? Would that teen have gotten the help he needed if it weren't for the sitter who made him comfortable enough to open up? I'm sorry that you've had some bad experiences - most of us love you and people who do your job. When you're a nurse, I'm sure you'll be the kind of nurse who will respect all of her coworkers and they will respect you too!

I work part-time as a patient safety attendant. We sit with patients who are suicidal, confused, depressed, fall risk, etc. I know we literally "sit" at times, but it is still a job and I took this job to help me during nursing school. I work at different floors all the time. One shift, I overheard the nurse say that all she does is watch the tv. I was with a patient who was a fall risk at a cancer floor. He had the news channel on even from the night before and when I asked him if he wanted me to turn it off, he said no, he likes that channel. He slept most of the time while I was there, so since the tv was in front of me, I saw it at times. At another shift, the nursing assistant told the nurses in behind the counter where they sit in front of the computers that she was going to relieve me for lunch, and they said,"go relieve her from her chair and giggled." I just went on my break, but I was very offended. I know we can't do much, but it is still a job, and if the nurses think it's so worthless, why call the sitters to sit with the patients?
Specializes in CICU.

Love when I have sitters for my at-risk patients.

All honest work is honorable, in my opinion.

Before I was a nurse, I was often pulled to sit on the night-shift. Yes, if the patient was sleeping and not disturbed by light - I watched TV, I read, I studied. How else do you stay awake all night (sometimes TRAPPED) in a room.

As for the sitters asking for a break - sitters have to pee too. When I have sitters, I always free them for a few minutes when I am passing meds, or whatever and will be in the room for a few minutes.

Specializes in Aged Care, Midwifery, Palliative Care.

I'm sure they are grateful for you being there doing that job, if you weren't it would make their shift hell. I would banter back with them... They are run off their feet, you're sitting on a chair 'Jealousy's a curse'... I would walk out saying 'I can't wait to take this break, think I'll take it standing up'.

I think the nurse is maybe just a tad bit envious of all the sitting you are doing while he or she is running around on the floor, so they are taking it out on you by making hurtful comments. Fact of the matter is you are VERY important for the patients safety. You know it, your team knows it and that nurse knows it too.

I have a prn position as a sitter as well while I am in nursing school. I recently started a nursing externship at another hospital but I will keep the prn position too. I have not encountered negativity from the nurses on the floor. I look at the sitter position as a foot-in-the-door position and I make my patient's nurse aware that I am a nursing student. Usually once they know they are friendly and offer all sorts of wonderful advice. You can also use it as a chance to observe procedures and get some studying in. Yes it is a long 8 hours, and the only real responsibilities we have besides watching the patient are ADL's and keeping the room straight, so entertaining yourself is just part of the job.

My advice is make yourself known to the nurses. Introduce yourself as a nursing student, and ask them lots of questions about themselves and their experiences. People do tend to like to talk about themselves.

Specializes in LTC.

I have a couple of thoughts/experiences on this subject.

When I was a CNA I was sitter for a resident that was suicidal. I was in nursing school at the time so I "practiced" alot of the therapeutic communication on her. Something worked because she handed me a bottle of sleeping pills and stated she was going to swallow the whole bottle, but decided not to.

A few months ago I had a resident that had fallen twice and I was really concerned about her safety. I called my boss who ok'd a sitter. This sitter was invaluable. She did vitals and did personal cares for the resident. Also the resident would NOT go to sleep. So the sitter layed down on a mat next to the resident and then resident then fell asleep. The sitter was bored out of her mind while the resident was asleep. The aide was invaluable to me! I could do my work, the other 2 CNAs could do their work and the night went much smoother.

Now playing devils advocate: While I think it is horrible of the nurses to make snide comments. My opinion: don't look a gift horse in the mouth. With that said as a nurse I often work 12 hours and don't get to sit down but to chart. I often times don't take a full lunch, much less ANY break bc I feel guilty. Now while that's my OWN issue, not yours, not the CNAs. I can kinda see why they would feel like why should you get a break when I don't type attitude. I've had those same thoughts myself. But then I take a step back and realize, that I COULD take a break but then some things might be pushed to the next shift. It's my issue! Not the CNAs. But maybe that is what is going on. I do have to say that as a CNA I got my lunch at least and often times a break in there. As a nurse I feel very lucky to get a lunch. And I work at a GREAT place. But like I said it's my own issue and I could probably MAKE time for a lunch, but it just stresses me out even more to do so than to just eat real quick and go about my business. As a CNA though too I was doing constant lifting, turning, etc. As a nurse my charting is my down time and it takes much more time to do my paperwork as a nurse than as an aide. I guess it's all a trade off.

what they are crazy i LOVE sitters!!!! dont worry brush your self off and keep studying!

OH Man! Please, please, please come to work with me. I would love to have you stay with the gentleman furthest from the nurses station, fall risk, insists he can get up and go to the bathroom on his own, because he isn't in much pain from that fracture (thanks to the heavy dose of excellent drugs) and will NEVER push the call light for help.

Or sit with the extremely depressed woman who tries daily to prove she can do everything for herself to get out of the place sooner, and has fallen twice. She will not be going home soon after her readmission from the second fall.

Please, come to work with me and I promise you, we will bow every time we walk past the room you are in and the pt. is SAFE.

What you do is recognize that people who feel worthless and undervalued will be the very people who will look at you and try to pull you into their boat of self pity. They themselves are unhappy and welcome company in their miserable state. Ignore them. If you feel good about what you do and see value in the service you provide then you are in the right place in your life at this moment. Ask yourself this. If you were NOT in the room monitoring that patient and something went wrong who do you think the other staff people would point the finger at?

Specializes in Geriactrics.

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"i'll tell you what did drive me nuts as a cna who was running my butt off is when people who were getting paid to sit down and watch tv, eat snacks, read books, be on the internet, etc. would call out and ask when they could take their break when i hadn't even taken mine! if you're known to ask for breaks you should expect that kind of response. if you don't ask for breaks and only take the one you're supposed to get then there's no reason for them to be that way. just imagine being on your feet for 8 hours, starving, and literally you haven't had a chance to sit at all (not even for a few seconds). you haven't peed. you haven't had anything to drink. then, a patient safety tech calls out and wants to know (while sitting in their chair with a coca cola and a laptop) when you can "relieve" them. i don't know that this is you, but i'm just sayin - it does happen."

as a sitter i am not paid to watch tv, read, or play on the internet, i am paid to make sure i provide patient safety. my supervisor doesn't allow computer use or eating in patients rooms. we are encouraged to bring our school work and study if it helps us stay awake and all sitters are allowed two 10 minute breaks and a 30 minute lunch break. i always ask at the start of my shift what time is good for the floor for me to take my break and i don't bother the pca or nurse unless it is something out of my job description; if the patients brief needs changing i will change it, if it's time for their bath i will do it, if they need to use the bed pan i get, ect. i am in nursing school anywhere from 4-6 hours during the day and then sit for an 8 hour night shift so there is a need to be relieved. it doesn't seem outrageous to me to relieve a person while they sit for 8 hours, sometimes 12, without food or being able to use the restroom with a person who is combative, suicidal, pulling on every tube/line, and trying to ambulate (by the way they have fallen no less than twice while at the facility), all while trying to stay awake. maybe the sitter just needs some time to lay her/his head down,eat, pee or take a breather from the patient.

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